Message from child's father
Message from child's father
He finally sent me a message because I asked him about doing the DNA test. He said he would let me know as soon as he's back from deployment the end of August and he's setting aside 17% of his pay for July and August so I will get my backpay if needed. He basically accused me of being financially motivated to do this and said that he wasn't uprooting his life but "maybe we can discuss potential involvement down the road" ?. He also accused me of defamation of character even though I've never spread anything about him and threatened me legally and then went on to ask me not to get legal or military drama started. God I can't stand him.
deleted-user·
Don't give a damn about what he's accusing you of. Make sure you continue your attempt for dna and child support. If I cared about what mines said I wouldn't be getting 770 a month.
NewMommy·
Well it seems like he is willing to pay child support, he just isn't willing to actually be a father. Which is what I would prefer but I'm taking the money either way. Children are expensive and I didn't make him on my own.
deleted-user·
I understand, I wish my oldest son's father was involved but he refused and mistreated his own son. However he still will be held responsible one way or another.
NewMommy·
He's still just so frustrating. If I had gotten pregnant on purpose I certainly wouldn't have picked him.
deleted-user·
What a poo head.
deleted-user·
Ugh some guys have some nerve ??♂️
NewMommy·
He's a real piece of s*** . I feel like he's going to try to come around once our son is old enough to do fun things and play sports.
deleted-user·
At least he is going to be financially there. I know some guys that went ghost on a few friends. Wait till baby comes and he see that face and knows it's his; he might change his tune. But in the mean time yea f how rude he is being
NewMommy·
Islandmer, he just knows he's in the military so he has to pay or he's going to get screwed lol. But you're right, we will see!
deleted-user·
I just know many people that have kids together that maybe never intended to. They all started off with lots of animosity during the pregnancies and then once the babies are born they just melt. Baby magic :-)
deleted-user·
I would let his command know as soon as he gets back. If you call the ombudsman it'll be easy to get him served with a court ordered DNA test