Baby's daddy's lies So my baby's daddy's girlfriend messaged a friend of mine and apparently she's…

I hear ya. I met one of those too. But I'm Sure we are much better off. They are somewhere making someone elses life hell n npt ours so i take as a blessing. I can't wait for Karma to get my ex.

Same. I learn more and more of my baby daddy's secrets as the days go by and I can't even BELIEVE I gave him the time of day to begin with. Karma is catching up with him too and I feel guilty for enjoying it sometimes. Moral of the story is you can't get a woman pregnant, abandon her and expect good things to happen to you

I can't believe how any man (or woman for that matter) can be a deadbeat parent. It just makes no sense. I even had a dream about him last night, in the dream we had sex and then my water broke. So he told me good luck and left. But yes, we are all way better off in the long run without these useless asshats

I wish i could witness karma with my BD.he was cheating on me n i found out later when i was pregnant. N when i refused to abort .,he was now showing it to my face and insulting me and blocked me too....like what exactly is their problem.....The girl thinks shes lucky and believes him ,she doesnt know whats coming for her ......i know you not suppose to wish someone bad but how do you hurt someone like that,refuse to take any responsibility and from what i see hes happy and hes moved on and am struggling to put myself together....just dont get it but i just believe God has my back and its going to be ok....

Smh prepare for him to suddenly pop up and want to be daddy either very close to when your have the baby or soon after. As for her, she should have BEEN left him she's a whole different story.

Shira, I don't think he will unless his mom makes him. I found out his mom does know and she's very disappointed in him and his actions. But I've also heard how she thought she would never get grandchildren from him because he didn't want kids. So I'm thinking she might try to force him to be involved so she can see the baby.

Aaaah. I know this all to well. Do we have the same baby daddy? Lol

I feel you! We are much better off! It's amazing how they can just be so selfish. ?

I find out more and more about mine as the days pass & just makes me sick.

Where do we find these losers!? I haven't spoken to my douche in 5-6 months. Since it's getting closer to June he blocked me and my best friend on Facebook. He also had his roommate and girlfriend block us. He even went as far as to log into his grandma's facebook to block us. I was going to make him pay child support but now I'm reconsidering. He already pays $600 for his other kids. Would his $30-50 a week really be worth it?

Ashly, mine hasn't blocked me. I sent him ultrasound pics and he looked at them but didn't say anything. I think he still wants to be able to get the news when he gets here. He's so stupid, I don't know what's wrong with him. If I was in your situation, I probably wouldn't even think the child support was worth it either. But mine doesn't have any kids and he's an E7 in the Navy while I'm an E5 and he will have to pay at least $850 according to the calculators. But I didn't factor in daycare or any of his special pays he gets. We will see!

In your case I'd definitely do it! Mine probably wouldn't pay it anyway lol

If his mom wants to see the baby will you let her? Just a curious question. Sounds like she really would like the opportunity. Hopefully he gets hos ass into gear and man up to his responsibilities.

Samilou, she can. But I would prefer she go through me instead of forcing him to be a part of something he doesn't want to.