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Dreams of baby daddy I really do not have any feelings for my baby's father, to be honest I never…

Dreams of baby daddy

I really do not have any feelings for my baby's father, to be honest I never really did except I though he was fun to go out with and talk to. And obviously have sex with, but even then I needed to be tipsy. He's an attractive man but not really my "type". He's been an absolute jerk to me since the pregnancy and I don't think I could ever really forgive him for it, but I keep having dreams about him. Even some where we are holding hands. Does this mean anything, or is it just natural since he did play a part in the creation of my baby?

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deleted-user

deleted-user

Me and my BD never dated, just fwb for about 5 years on and off. I always wanted to be with him though. After I got pregnant we quit hanging out and talking for about 6 months so I said I could never be with someone like him. Since my daughter has been born he's come to see her in the hospital a couple times and he's so good with her it has made me practically head over heals for him again. It's weird how things work sometimes. Idk if there's necessarily an answer to your question but our hearts tend to have a mind of their own sometimes.

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deleted-user

deleted-user

Idk the answer to your question because I actually have been experiencing the same thing. Except I have dreams a lot about his new gf beating me up or them together rubbing it in my face. Sometimes I do have them just about him but his gf always gets brought up in it. It's really weird and I even tried googling it to see if it means something and I couldn't find anything ?

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shaina

NewMommy

Babyjemmott, mine actually had a girlfriend the whole time he was seeing me and apparently she knows and stayed with him. I never really think about her though, someone who stays with a man like him isn't worth a second thought to me.

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deleted-user

deleted-user

Ew yeah that's forsure. The girl mine left me for knew that he had a pregnant fiancé and didn't even care at all. She even quit her job so they could date cause he was her boss. People are f*** ing stupid I swear. She wanted my life so badly.

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shaina

NewMommy

Babyjemmott, that's really messed up! I guess in my case I am luckier than some other moms since I never had true feelings for my baby's father. Yours and his girlfriend both sound like sh*theads.

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deleted-user

deleted-user

I've had a few dreams of mine too and I hate myself for it. I honestly don't even remember them at all but the fact I still think of him, when he's walked out of my son's life, gets me sooo mad. Since I can't stop thinking about how we could have successfully co-parented and my son could have had a father I really want to leave the area lol it's running away but I want a fresh start with my son. My situation is really complicated though. I don't think the dreams mean anything towards feelings towards baby daddy but feelings of having a baby with someone I love and having this love extend to a child.

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shaina

NewMommy

Angelina, I feel you on the fresh start! I moved across the country from mine (it was already planned though) and he was supposed to follow but decided not to. We are both military and he was up for orders so he could have easily came out here since his detailer wanted to send him here.

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deleted-user

deleted-user

I dont even know if dreams mean something or not .for myself .i just had a dream about the girl who he cheated on me with and they are even dating rightnow .i dreamt that me and her were having a conversation n just telling her everything he put me through and all the lies ....n she was just shocked .its creepy coz i dont even want to think bout them .....

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deleted-user

deleted-user

I think deep down you do have feelings for him. I used to have the same dreams

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shaina

NewMommy

I don't know about having feelings deep down. I actually had stopped responding to his texts after the last time we had sex, until I found out I was pregnant of course. I don't know how I would magically develop feelings when he told me he didn't want anything to do with us except to send a check. It could possibly just be tied into me really wanting him to be a good person and be there for his son.

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deleted-user

deleted-user

I don't think the dreams mean you have feelings for him. They definitely don't for me. Ive come to the conclusión the dreams mean I wish I could have had a family and stable relationship before having a child. Wishing my child had a father, wishing we could be civil enough to co-parent. Since he's the father he's in the dreams, but there are no feelings what so ever (there never were it was more of a one night stand for me).

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deleted-user

deleted-user

Dreams are a collection of your thoughts throughout the day randomly pieced together by your brain.

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