A little practice could never hurt! Lol. For real though, it might take a couple cycles.. It doesn't always work the first time! Just make sure you're both on the same page. I'd rather go with the flow than actively ttc any day. I've done both and ttc is so stressful!
I might try to convince DH to start not preventing after this cycle (I'm on the pill)... it took 2 cycles with DD but we were actively trying and it's true that it can get stessful! A little fun without stress might be nice! :)
I have the same dilemma, but we decided that we will just go with the flow. I do however want to give birth in the spring/summer, so we may wait. I say do it! Lol
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A little practice could never hurt! Lol. For real though, it might take a couple cycles.. It doesn't always work the first time! Just make sure you're both on the same page. I'd rather go with the flow than actively ttc any day. I've done both and ttc is so stressful!
Rousseline·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I might try to convince DH to start not preventing after this cycle (I'm on the pill)... it took 2 cycles with DD but we were actively trying and it's true that it can get stessful! A little fun without stress might be nice! :)
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I conceived my first while on bcp. The second took 4 months of trying. Keep in mind it might now work on the first try!
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I have the same dilemma, but we decided that we will just go with the flow. I do however want to give birth in the spring/summer, so we may wait. I say do it! Lol
Rousseline·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Thanks for the replies! Yep, I think I'm gonna go with the flow for some months and start trying actively afterwards. :)
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Keep us updated!! (:
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My husband agreed we could TTC when my daughter is 3. She's 19 months now and my son will be 4 in July. The wait is killer!
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I agree that it definitely can't be planned. It took two years to concieve ds1 and one whoopsie to concieve ds2.
Rousseline·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@ibandtw, I will! :)