Opinions???
Ok so I have to have a scheduled c-section... Doc say we will do sometime between September 15-20...
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id say it really doesnt matter because being that they are in the same month they will still resent that. if they are closer together, and in age you dont have to spend so much on bday parties and such. my brothers birthday is march 10 and im march 12, we never had a problem with our birthdays so close.
Me and my sister have b-days 2 days apart ( but with a 4 yr difference) and it never caused issues ( that I can remember). So I never though about it...
Unfortunately I can't really talk to dd about it, since she will only b 2 yrs old this September...
Me and my sister were 10 months apart I hated it because they always put us together. There was never any acknowledging our separate accomplishments. Talk to your dd about it before you make it on her bday. She may not like the idea. I think they should have their own special days. Kids don't like sharing. And kids sometimes have a hard time sharing mommy to begin with, so sharing her bday may make it worse
@pp lol.... Yeah I guess so... Funny thing really is, my youngest dd and this one have the same due date... My youngest dd was born early by c-section due to being breech..
But the due date for both of them was/is sept. 22... Lol
A y other thoughts or opinions would be lovely, as I am at a loss of how to do it..
I'd give them their special day. Chances are you'll end up celebrating birthdays together anyway, but I think it would be nice to have a day that's their own. Then when they are older they can do something special on their day without compromising with the other. Even if that's choosing their favorite food for dinner (or something like that). Anyway, I digress...I think separate days! :)
I would say to give them each their own birthday, then even if you decide to celebrate them together, they still can both have a day where they feel special and it's "their" day!