No I am not in the bridal party... I am the wedding coordinator and will be taking the flower girls down the aisle...

They are buying the dress and everything I just have to find one in the price range...

It's really not bad, I just temporarily got so fed up with looking for a dress and shoes... Lol. I went a little crazy last night, after searching all day... Lol

Do your best to get what they want but if you can't just tell them, "I did my best but with being pregnant this is the best I could do." It doesn't sound like you're in the bridal party so it should not be a huge deal. If it is a big deal then they need to help get you a dress that you feel comfortable in.

Oh fun fun...

Yeah, with formal dresses you almost always have to have them altered.

I honestly don't know, they have had me looking at formal dresses, and omg they are hard to find to fit a tiny person that is 33 weeks... I found some maternity dresses that they love, but the smallest size is still too big for me... Lol

Could you get away with a dress in jersey material if you dressed up with nice shoes and jewelry? That would be much more comfortable and easy to find?

And on top of all that, I will be 33 weeks pregnant for the wedding..

I am very tiny... And my sil wants me in royal blue or navy blue, so I match the bridesmaids...

And of course we live in florida and they all live in California, so it's hard for us to communicate, ( since they work full time as well)

I have the dress and shoes and never got to use them. I was supposed to be in my brother's wedding on 6/29 but his fiancé lost her mind and called it off. I would send them to you but I doubt we're the same size. You like tiny.