TMI Post (it's about sex lol)
TMI Post (it's about sex lol)
So I'm a bit embarrassed to say this, but since I found out I was pregnant again I've pretty much refused to have sex. I know they sat it's safe but I'm terrified. What if it aggravates something and starts a miscarriage? How do you ladies deal with it? I want to be intimate with my partner, I miss him but thought of it fills me with dread
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Currently in the same situation as well. I honestly don't know what to do BC I know my hubs is starting to get frustrated with me..ahh! Sorry I couldn't be no help I just wanted u to know your not alone with these feelings about sex.
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I think you just do what you feel is right... And that might change several time throughout your pregnancy. My first pregnancy, surprisingly, neither of us was really in the mood much past the first few weeks. My second, I was all about it! Now, after 3 losses, I'm on progesterone suppositories, so I feel gross and definitely not in the mood. And that's ok - especially since my husband is so nervous about another potential loss that he's A-ok taking the ultra cautious route!
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I know the feeling. If he's getting really frustrated and I'm not into it, I have been known to surprise my DH with oral (if my tummy isn't too wonky) and that seems to help him not be so cranky. GL and H/H 9m.
Ceannie·
Thanks for the feedback and advice girls, good to know I'm not the only one feeling like this. I could be persuaded to do oral...not sure on how my gag reflex is at the moment though lol it might be dodgy. Maybe I'll feel more comfortable in the 2nd trimester. Just right now I'm afraid of anything going near my hoo ha ?