Petty rant. So don't know if you saw my previous post my mom had a stroke. She left the hospital on…
Petty rant.
So don't know if you saw my previous post my mom had a stroke. She left the hospital on Wednesday afternoon and we went home. Well dh, the kids, and I stayed with my mom and my cousin from out of state came to see my mom as well. Suddenly dh says he bought a plane ticket to fly out Friday morning at 3am to Phoenix to see his grandpa and because his cousins had also flown out to Phoenix. I got upset because of everything going on I needed dh to help me with the kids and just be there since what had happened with my mom. Dh was supposed to come back yesterday afternoon and then says " I didn't buy my ticket cause I wanted to see if they would go down in price" ??. Well they didn't and he lost his flight. So he paid 200 for a ticket and I had to pick him up at 3 am this morning. I don't know if I'm being petty or what but I'm very upset with him and I can't put my thoughts together of why I feel like this and it's making me more upset. I just needed to vent. Sorry for the petty rant.
deleted-user·
I'd be pissed. Unless he had a family emergency, I would get having to fly out to see them. But you're the one with the emergency and needing the support. He should be there for you, or at the very least helping with the kids so you have some time to process and prepare for you mom being home. What he did was selfish.
Bolas Azules ·
There wasn't any family emergency he literally just wanted to go because his family was there and he wanted to go have a good time. Ds was out of control this weekend. I don't know if he feels the stress or what but dh got here and expected me to just be all dandy and fine and even have sex. He throws in my face that we went shopping before he left and it was his turn to do something.
deleted-user·
Uh what? I'm sorry but he's acting like a douche. I don't care what you did before he left. You're having a very stressful time, understandably. I can't believe how selfish he was. Did he offer to take the kids with him? He's free to do what he wants, but how he felt okay doing that is beyond me.
deleted-user·
This isn't petty at all. I would be mad as hell! His priorities are messed up. You had a family emergency and he decided it was a fine and dandy time to fly to Arizona just because he felt like going to have fun with family? Then he had you pick him up at 3am?! Girl WHAT?! His ass would have found his own ride home and the two of us would be having a lengthy conversation about what's right and what's wrong in this scenario.
deleted-user·
This isn't petty. I'd be so mad at dh if he did this! Also shopping and flying to a different state are two completely different things. So his excuse don't fly. (No pun intended.) I would have made dh find his own way home especially at 3 in the morning!
deleted-user·
That was irresponsible and inconsiderate of him.