she thinks i don't love her anymore
she thinks i don't love her anymore
Dd is 3.. And I feel like she thinks I don't love her anymore. It's breaking my heart. I just had ds two weeks ago and I'm ebf him so hes with me a lot . She got sick and I haven't let her kiss him or hold him much. She been acting out quite a bit and I have been more firm with her because it's being too much. Well I was putting her down for a nap and she didn't want me to sing to get or touch her or anything. She went to sleep on her own. She's never done that. I can't stop crying. I feel like a horrible mother. She almost avoids me. I tell her everyday I love her and she's still my baby. I'm just at a loss. What can I do ? I feel completely horrible?????
deleted-user·
Totally agree with lanie! You should set a time at least once a week to do this. Also, making her more involved with the care of your baby. Like getting diapers, wipes and blankets for you. Let her help.
Bolas Azules ·
I will definitely do that! I do have her help with getting things or pushing buttons on the swing to turn it on... It just brand my heart that she feels that. I will do what I have to to change it
deleted-user·
Take her to have her nails done with you or set up a little spa day at home and get hubby or someone to take the baby so there isn't any distractions for you and you can focus on her and her alone. I am so scared of this happening to me too. I'm due in October and my son will be 3 years and 3 months at the time. Even now I have already set up some times where we have a bath together and then I'll cut his nails, give him a little massage with some baby lotion, read him books etc and I'm constantly telling him I'll never ever stop loving him no matter what. He's my best friend and my only family member so I spend every waking and sleeping second with him. I'm freaking out ?