what the fracckk... am i overreacting??

I would have told to f*** off. That was rude and she has no place, especially since you are not close!

She sounds like a jelioce batch? yes maybe you should ignore it but no she should not be saying anything about your weight, your doing good on pregnancy weight you could even gain more if you needed or if you just happen to. If she has kids maybe she doesn't relies how pregnant people look? Near the end we all look like hippos strong emotional hippos who make babies lol don't let her bother you she probably was trying to upset you

Those are the people that have babies. And gain 100+ pounds.. Ignore her :) probably hitting menopause anyway!!

It was mean of them two to gang up on you.

Yeah, your mil too since she didn't defend you.

All in poor taste in front of a child at that.

For being 33 weeks you haven't gained a lot. What the hell is she talking about? It's healthy to gain weight. The nerve of some people tsk tsk.

Um. I'm 20 weeks and have gained 26 lbs. lol I think you're good. Ignore her. she prob didn't know how rude she was being. Some ppl are oblivious to that stuff.

Obviously she's not comfortable with herself, if she has the need to downplay a pregnant women. A PREGNANT WOMAN!!! it's hard to, but let it slide. If you must see her again, and she repeats the scenario, then let her have it!

And yes, for 33 weeks, 15 lbs isn't all that much. You're doing just fine. Go enjoy some Doritos! LOL

15 lbs!!?? I gained that last month alone! 15 lbs at 33 weeks is awesome! That batch is rude and crazy!

Is shocking to me that women who have been pregnant before are so quick to judge other women on their pregnancy. Every pregnancy is different and every body is different.

If she had nothing nice to say then she should just shut the fack up.

Please don't let get comments get to you.

I despise when people make comments about other peoples weight.

What a complete mole she is, just ignore her and carry on doing what your doing

Thank you all so much. I was just left speechless and didn't know what to say. Freaking batch. I mean really?!?!

But thank you all beautiful souls.

15 pounds is not that much for 33 weeks. Seriously?

I delivered at 38 weeks and the last time they checked I had gained 36 lbs. No one can tell you that you've gained too much!

I would have took that bad too. It makes it worse your mil just let her talk to you like that.

People are always going to have something to say. They love to focus on others instead of themselves. Your weight gain is fine and I'm sure you look fine. Pay her no damn mind.

You were a good example to your child by not letting her get to you. You showed him what an appropriate response to someone who is rude, lacks tact and who has no common decency. But if it were me and my kid wasn't there... That batch would have gotten a piece of my mind and my fist. Ok, ok.. Not my fist but I def would find joy in imaging it at least.

Oh wow, she would think I was a cow then! I've gained 35 at 35 weeks.

Dh's sister sounds jealous honestly.

Yeah I wish I was only up 15lbs. I am pushing 30 at 28+5:(

Good for you for not snapping on her cause I would have.

15 lbs?! Id say all of that is baby. I lost 30 lbs immediately with each birth (3) so 3lbs of my weight gain is baby. She sounds like a doush.

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I'm w u! That was just rude!!

15 lbs thats it? Girl you are just fine. I think the avg weight gain is that or more. Do not stress yourself i gained 70 lbs with my oldest , 8 lbs with #2 ( i was obese so i was on a healthy diet) 25-30 with #3 and about 40 with this #4. I said all that to say this...if your dr doesn't tell you your gaining too much screw that batch and her nasty opinions.

That's healthy - you're pregnant - eat healthy for you and your baby and that's all that matters.

For some reason people always feel the need to say stupid things - it's so rude of them. Try not to take it to heart.

The fact that you mil just "giggled" would have thrown me over the edge. DH's aunt also made a comment about my weight 2 months after I had my dd. I reminded her I just had a child and that hers were grown azs adults with kids of their own (she's overweight) that ended things ?

That was rude of her period. Pregnant women are suppose to gain weight and she needs to mind her business. Are you able to talk to your mil about it?

Again thank you all for your support and letting me know I wasn't overreacting.

@ mommaofdos... I can't tell her anything really, she's the kind that cries over every little thing and likes to make things about her.

I'm sorry that happened to you. Before I got pregnant my dh aunt came out to visit so we went out and the first time I ever even seen her she puts her hand on my stomach and said well what do we have here. I told her I wasn't pregnant and she was like oh... are you sure? Like who asks someone that?! So I told her I was positive bc I was very bloated and on my period. Lol she just said sorry and dh wouldn't even talk about it bc he was embarrassed she actually did that. Lol