I give up I give up. No matter what I do, it's not enough. I've been trying for 6 years and it's…

I'm so sorry op. ?

The arrival of our daughter has been really hard on my so and me too. I don't know what is going to happen with us either. All I know is that motherhood changed me in a way I would never have thought possible. I have a hard time finding myself again and it's soooo hard to find my grooves in my relationship too. I've lost all my friends. My family is almost inexistente....

Anyway, I just wanted you to know that I have read you, I heard you. You are not alone. Not this time. Not tonight. Hugs mama. ?

I'm sorry you're going through this. There's a book called seasons of love or something like that that might be good for you to read. I know you feel hopeless and done, I know how that feels because I'm there myself right now, but I'm pregnant with his baby and he's helped raise my other children since they were 1 and 2, so I feel like I should stick it out. Anyway, the book is a reminder that not all times in marriage is wonderful but spring does come after winter. He may be feeling depressed because he's not the one 'doing the mans job' of providing for his family. Actually we have similar situations as far as SO doesn't work and I'm working, but I do enjoy my job so that helps. He takes care of the kids. He hates it and sometimes takes it out on me. I should clarify he doesn't hate taking care of the kids, but he hates that I'm the breadwinner. It's not fair to you that his anger is directed at you but sometimes people lash out at those they are closest too. I hope it does get better for you ?

Four seasons of marriage by Gary Chapman! That's the book

Thank you ladies. It does help to know I'm not alone, though I wish no one ever had to feel the way I feel right now. I'll look into that book if he ever decides to acknowledge my existence.

I'm sure he will again, men are just buttholes and seem to need much longer than women to get over themselves. Well at least that's how it is over here ?

I don't have any experience with that, but I'm sorry you're feeling that way mama! I can imagine how horrible that must feel. I hope you guys can talk things out soon and get to some common ground.

Some times life isn't what we expect it to be, an partners turn into strangers..

What do you want outta life..? Happiness.. That's something you have to work for..

That fella in ur home may have fathered ur children, but isn't carrying did your emotional needs.. Your children are learning how to tees a women by how he treats u..

Maybe you need to separate an let him get his priorities together..

You can get childcare assistance if you need it.. Seems like your working cooking n cleaning anyway... What's he doing?

Not being the support you need an deserve..

Sending hugs to you, your not failing, ur plate is just overflowing!