Are you sure that there isn't anyone that could help? If someone comes to mind don't be afraid to ask even if you have doubts that they would help. If I was in your situation I would be trying my hardest to find a job or find someone to stay with because a man that would throw his child out on the streets is not a man I would want in his/her life.
I would have a serious talk with him..maybe he's getting cold feet about marriage and baby..most men do. The solution is not to make excuses to run away from it though. Is there anyone from his side of the family that you can get support from, maybe some advice on how to approach the situation with him? If he feels that he can't handle being the bread winner then let him know your willing to contribute, it's that simple. It's not like the decision you guys made were set in stone and the only solution is for him to walk away..no..that's ridiculous. If he's not willing to talk and compromise then something is wrong with him. Your having his baby for Christ sake..he should be willing to compromise.
If so, tag him for child support and get ready to tag him for this baby too.
Start doing research on jobs.
Tell him hes no longer working the hours ue worked before as he will now be at home, pulling his weight, taking care of the baby, the house, food, groceries and paying the bills as well. If hes not ok with that, then he needs to help pay for childcare services.
Wow! That is utterly shocking and aggravating. What man has two children with a woman and says he's going to marry her, then is willing to kick all 3 of them to the curb? And he's not even willing to give you a month or two to stay until you can get situated somewhere else? What a heartless and irresponsible prick! You need to not feel broken over him. Pack up all your belongings and leave with your child and unborn baby. Find a job and show him you don't need him and he doesn't deserve to be a part of your life or your childrens if he's just going to desert you all like that. Yes I can't imagine what you're going through but try to keep your head high and be successful on your own. You can and will find better and do better for yourself and your children. Be strong, momma!!!
File for CS! He can pull his weight and help pay to take care of his children.
I would talk to family and friends and see if I could stay with them. I wouldn't be staying with someone who will only make u feel bad and add stress ur kids are ur main priority and staying healthy for ur unborn baby.
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Are you sure that there isn't anyone that could help? If someone comes to mind don't be afraid to ask even if you have doubts that they would help. If I was in your situation I would be trying my hardest to find a job or find someone to stay with because a man that would throw his child out on the streets is not a man I would want in his/her life.
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I would have a serious talk with him..maybe he's getting cold feet about marriage and baby..most men do. The solution is not to make excuses to run away from it though. Is there anyone from his side of the family that you can get support from, maybe some advice on how to approach the situation with him? If he feels that he can't handle being the bread winner then let him know your willing to contribute, it's that simple. It's not like the decision you guys made were set in stone and the only solution is for him to walk away..no..that's ridiculous. If he's not willing to talk and compromise then something is wrong with him. Your having his baby for Christ sake..he should be willing to compromise.
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Im assuming the first child is his?
If so, tag him for child support and get ready to tag him for this baby too.
Start doing research on jobs.
Tell him hes no longer working the hours ue worked before as he will now be at home, pulling his weight, taking care of the baby, the house, food, groceries and paying the bills as well. If hes not ok with that, then he needs to help pay for childcare services.
Its a two way street.
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Wow! That is utterly shocking and aggravating. What man has two children with a woman and says he's going to marry her, then is willing to kick all 3 of them to the curb? And he's not even willing to give you a month or two to stay until you can get situated somewhere else? What a heartless and irresponsible prick! You need to not feel broken over him. Pack up all your belongings and leave with your child and unborn baby. Find a job and show him you don't need him and he doesn't deserve to be a part of your life or your childrens if he's just going to desert you all like that. Yes I can't imagine what you're going through but try to keep your head high and be successful on your own. You can and will find better and do better for yourself and your children. Be strong, momma!!!
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Wow he is a complete douche!
File for CS! He can pull his weight and help pay to take care of his children.
I would talk to family and friends and see if I could stay with them. I wouldn't be staying with someone who will only make u feel bad and add stress ur kids are ur main priority and staying healthy for ur unborn baby.