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gullible.the.dinosaur
gullible.the.dinosaur
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (11 нед.)

Life Changing Situation I'm currently 9 weeks pregnant, and I have a 7 month old son. Last night, my…

Life Changing Situation

I'm currently 9 weeks pregnant, and I have a 7 month old son. Last night, my fiance informed me that I don't contribute enough and that he no longer wants to be with me. This doesn't make any sense to me, since all he does is work. I'm expected to take care of our son, clean our home, cook all meals, do all shopping, make sure all bills get paid, everything that comes with being an adult except working since we both decided that it would be best if I stayed at home with our son since childcare is so expensive. Suddenly he says I'm not pulling my weight because I'm not working. Obviously I'm broken hearted. We've been together for almost 5 years and were going to marry next fall, a few months after I have the baby. I'm absolutely lost on what to do. We are both on the lease, and he said we can 'cohabitate' until the lease is up but that is clearly not something I want to do. This is a high risk pregnancy for me and I'm worried all this added stress is going to negatively affect the baby. I also have no friends or family that would be able to take me in right now, so I'm either forced to live with a man who admitted he does not love me or care about me and ha already said if I stay I need to come up with half the rent and utilities as well as buy my own groceries, or I'm on the streets with my child. I have no car and no idea what I'm going to do. Any suggestions are greatly appreciated ladies. Thank you so much.

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deleted-user

deleted-user

Well i working now i am 32 weeks with twins . Yeah it is hard to pay the bills by himself. I know . It was a strain on my relationship. Well this is how i did it . While he at work i watch the kids when he got off i went to work we trade off.

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gullible.the.dinosaur

gullible.the.dinosaur

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (11 нед.)

With my first pregnancy I worked up until the day I got admitted into the hospital with complications. I was 34 weeks at the time. I have no issue with working, except I have no one to watch my son. His father's schedule is unpredictable and changes at a moment's notice. I would not be able to rely on him to be anywhere at a specific time to get our son so I could work. I would end up missing a lot of work or being late and that would cost me my job.

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deleted-user

deleted-user

This just came out of the blue? You should sign up for wic and other assistance.

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