update in comments: sooo worried...

So I am 12 days late for af. I can't test until the 5 because we don't have the money and women's care center is on the other side if town(we don't have a car). I didn't want to get pregnant again. J wanted to get my tubes tied but my doctor said I have to wait until I turn 21 years and 31 days old. That's in 4 months away...ive been on birth control and we used condoms. My husband will probably want to consider adoption. He knows I won't get an abortion as I am very against it. And i dont think I could handle giving my child up for adoption but he says we wouldn't be able to afford a 3rd kid. And I mean we do struggle as it is. But all I can think about is what if I'd given up charlie or Jojo for adoption. I wouldn't have either of them and they are my babies. I love them more than anything. Fingers crossed that I'm not pregnant again. Because I don't know what I would do.

Ok. This is my 2nd month in it. I spotted the whole first month.

When I was on birth control I missed the first few months.

Did you take it everyday without missing it

99 cent store, dollar tree, etc have tests for a buck.

First.. Breathe woman. Walmart has $0.88 tests. I've used them multiple times and they work very well! Also IF you are you will have 9 months.. So much can change in 9 months girl. You don't have to give your child up for adoption. Thing can change in 9 months girl.. It'll be ok. ?

I have been late quite a few times with my pill but ever time I was late or if I missed on I made sure my husband used a condom for the next week. Everytime. I'm hoping you're right and I'm just skipping a period.

What type of BC? My BC has almost completely stopped my periods, so it's normal for your periods to be late.

The mini pill. Would it be normal for my to spot and bleed the first month and and then not bleed after that?

Yea my periods were irregular in the beginning with the pill and the first month I did spot a little but not much. But after that I missed a few months and then it got regulated eventually.

Try not to stress yourself out too much

I'm 18 days late for my period and nothing still? Im not sure what to do. I don't want another child.

Should I take a test or should I just wait and see if my period comes.

I haven't taken my birth control in a little over a week because I lost my insurance this month and need to reapply and I can't afford my birth control without insurance but even after not taking it for a week I havent gotten a period.

I have the implant, so I don't know if this could apply to you or what, but I've had regular periods for the past year. Then I missed March and Aprils periods, I did panic and took a test, negative. I finally started my period today. BC can really mess up your cycle. I'd still take a test though.

You don't have the money for a test? I think they are 0.88 at Walmart.

I can't afford to buy a test until Friday. But i am for sure taking one. I really hope it's the birth control.

No. I can't afford an $0.88 test. I know it's sad and embarrassing but atm we live paycheck to paycheck. My husband makes enough for our bills but I am in the process of getting a job myself. Seems like there's a lot of jobs we just don't have a car so it makes it a bit more difficult. I can only get jobs around the bus route or in walking distance. But my husband get paid Friday so I'll test then

I completely skipped a period on the mini pill and freaked out too. It's normal on that pill.

Good luck.

Thanks