advice on anouncing So I will be 7 weeks tomorrow and haven't told my husband. I had one miscarriage before and am a…
advice on anouncing
So I will be 7 weeks tomorrow and haven't told my husband. I had one miscarriage before and am a little afraid of getting him excited. also his birthday is on Wednesday April 4th I'm trying to hold off telling him until then. Ive been sick but he hasnt noticed because its been during his work hours. I think he might notice now as he has a couple days off. For right now I actually do have a stomach bug so im getting away with it today and tomorrow. but what's your advice try to hold it till Wednesday or tell him before then?the ultrasound was good and so were my hcg levels.
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I would tell him! If anything would happen, I would imagine you would want his support. But with a good ultrasound and good Hcg levels, I say go ahead and tell him the good news!! :)
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Um I don’t know what sort of dynamic you have with your husband but.. tell him now! Tell him 3 weeks ago more like.. you went to an ultrasound without him? You don’t have to do any of this alone ?
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I understand. You want to keep it sorta quiet till his birthday. Maybe make a surprise for his bday. April 4th isn't that far away. Good luck.
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I don’t know how you’ve kept it hidden! My appetite changes, mood swings, crying, breast sensitivity and constant exhaustion would have been hard to hide.
I announced a cute way the first time and then miscarried. I made my hubby look at the test with me the second time, so he knew the moment I knew. I’ve had so many fears this 2nd pregnancy. I can’t imagine not sharing those with him.
Judy·
I followed ur advice ladies..im much too sick wasnt going to be able to keep hiding it, now that hes home. He was super excited! :)