scared to have sex So I'm almost 7 weeks post partum and I'm terrified to have sex...my husband…

Me! I don't want him anywhere near me. Lol! I'm scared because I'm not sure what to expect and because I haven't started my birth control yet.

When you finally do use tons of lube. With my first I wasn't cleared till 8wpp and then we use condoms not gonna lie it felt different I was terrified also but after a few times it got better I haven't been to my appt yet go this Friday so I'm also waiting though I bf and really have no desire right now good luck!

I was 7 weeks pp and was super scared but went for it lol. It's a little intense and uncomfortable especially if you had to get stitches but feels way better than before! ? I was just a tad bit sore after but nothing too bad.

I was going to make a post on this! Last night we tried the deed finally at 6.5 weeks pp. he went in and immediately I felt the entire slit where I tore inside and out, it felt like it was going to reopen honestly, so uncomfortable. So obviously that ended that. I just have no idea how long this is going to take before I feel normal enough to have sex. I thought all would be fine by now, but apparently not.

And to add lol I feel like I've never been so turned on by my husband in my life, like how does that work?! Struggle ?

When me & my husband did the deed I felt so amazing!! To be honest sex NOW is way better & I have no clue why!! ? haha.. But I was scared too & I went for it & it was like I never had a baby...

I'm not terrified to have sex. I'm terrified because my husband doesn't want me to be on BC and I have no desire for sex.

I finally gave in last night. 7 and half weeks pp and I've been terrified to let him anywhere near that area. Honestly it was great once I relaxed and got into it and realized it didn't hurt. Definitely don't do it until you are ready though.

Yes just go for it! It's the fear holding you back. Use lots of lube and try to relax. Once you're past that, it'll be great.

Well once the bleeding stop I think I'll try it...idk still but I'll try it.

We tried at 4.5 weeks PP and it wasn't bad at all. It was during my whole 5 days I had between the after birth stuff and when my "period" started. Use a condom until your confident with your birth control though

Oh yea I need to get some thank you for reminding me.

Man...Op, i am right there with you! I'm terrified because i didn't get the tubal ligation done.

And i feel like i haven't fully recovered vaginally yet...because im 7 weeks pp and i still can feel some pain vaginally...it's a strange feeling...TMI

like everytime i poop i can feel a contracting type of pain inside vaginally.

I never felt that when i delivered my first child. So im not sure if I'm ok to have sex.

We've had sex 3 times so far and it's still painful a little for me. I'm 8 weeks pp and it's just still uncomfortable but everyone I have asked about it says to just keep going and it'll get better so that's what I'm doing lol

So I still haven't had sex and quite frankly idk if I want to I still have no sex drive is this normal?

Absolutely normal Mama! With my daughter it actually took me 10 months before I started enjoying it. The hormones are weird, I'm now 7 weeks pp and don't mind sex but I know it'll take me a few months before I really get into it.

Im at this point where I don't want to kiss my husband I feel descusting when he trys to touch me...i don't even want to give him oral because I'm so ify on having sex...hes not liking it one bit...idk I guess it's a turn off when he asks all the time and then gets pouty like a child when I say no...any one else have a hubby like this?

My husband is the same exact way. I feel the way you do. I don't even wasn't to do oral.

I'm so glad I'm not alone

Tell him to push a baby out and then come talk to you lol I get it though, men tend to feel unloved when they don't have that closeness. I was scared too but I agree with others, it was amazing when I did it!