hormones How many of you mamas out there have experienced hormones like this... I have anxiety…
hormones
How many of you mamas out there have experienced hormones like this... I have anxiety attacks when my husband does the dishes because of the way he does them and because of the water that's gets all over everything... is this hormones or horrible OCD? So this morning my husband let me sleep in...which I hate doing because it makes me off my schedule... and he took care of our 3 year old son. I wake up and hear him doing dishes I try so hard to just let it go but it makes me mad he touched them. So I get up and lose it. Why do the plates look like this in the strainer ... they were all just laid in there instead of their appropriate slots. Why are you using that soap it's the big bottle instead of the hand bottle which was in the sink leaking soap into the sink waisting it. why is there water everywhere. Why are I sing a scratch pad on those pans please use the dish towel. Why is my drying towel soaked? ... he says because he used it to soak up all the water he got out of the sink. And I said the dish towel is perfectly capable of doing this... That was the last clean drying towel ... and then he makes breakfast and puts milk in the scrambled eggs I look at him all crazy and say I don't put milk in eggs and he day I do I'm about to yell and then I see him use the frying pan for scrambled eggs and use a metal wisk on my non stick pan!! I freek out and fling the wisk across the room and get him a plastic spatula. I'm in tears and he's upset too. Am I crazy or is it hormones maybe OCD? I'M LOSING IT !!
deleted-user·
I think your being a little bit of selfish!! & extremely OCD!!!! Because I would love my husband to make breakfast for my son & for me!! To get up & clean!!! I stayed up till 1am cleaning the whole entire house & he was in the room just laying down & didn't bother asking me for help!? I'm so upset & frustrated that he is so lazy!!!!!! Buuut I would apologize to your husband sounds like he did it to help you!!!
deleted-user·
I would definitely apologize mama. It sounds like OCD to me. Guys just don't do things how us women do. I love my bf to death but I have to nag him to do anything on his own. Sounds like you had a dream day to me. ❤️
deleted-user·
I think you might have OCD and the hormones are making it worse. Love For one I would throw a party if my husband not only let me sleep in but wash the dishes! Your extremely lucky!! Even if he makes a water mess I'm grateful he helps out when he does. If I were you I would apologize and tell him how much you appreciate his help. ? maybe you should get some help. I have dealt with anxiety, OCD and mood disorders in the past and just venting helps a lot.
deleted-user·
Oh mama sounds like OCD as well as your pregnancy hormones! I'm pretty OCD but not as bad. I try to see the positivity in everyone's help and appreciate that they are willing to happily do things for me while I get an opportunity to rest. Once we are not pregnant we can go back to our normal selves but for now I appreciate all the help. Maybe sit down with your husband and talk out a few things? In my house I do everything cooking, cleaning, food shopping etc and I'm very particular about the way I do it. However if someone helping does things a different way I just take a deep breath and appreciate that at least I have someone looking out for me! I know its not easy but try talking to your husband as to how you like your dishes done and maybe it'll get better? If not just use disposable plates. Hope it gets better!
deleted-user·
I agree with all pp. there's only so much people can "blame" on hormones. That's a little intense in my opinion. There are bigger battles and actually bad things to freak out on. If he was being malicious I could understand but he's trying to help and it's not fair to freak out on him for something like that.
deleted-user·
Yeah sweetie I think you may have overreacted just a tad. I yell at my husband because he doesn't do anything at all. I would practically faint if he let me sleep in AND did the dishes.
Olivia Rader·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
Thank you ladies for the honesty I'm going to the doc about it on Monday it was like this before I got pregnant just not as bad. I've got an organization problem too. I'm a total wreck I apologized well before I even read all of these posts he's wonderful I just prefer to do it by myself. But he insists that he do it especially if my feet are swollen. He tells me to go tAke a bath and then he cleans while I'm in the bath and I wake up the next morning after he goes to work and fix everything that was out of place for me. Especially how he folds towels just drives me nuts. I'm going to get some help for this thAnk you ladies so much . How are all your babies doing ?