my heart is broken
Ok, only half broken, but ladies talk me down lol
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True love:
While at the height of his post-vasectomy pain, dh was comforting me, bc i was once again crying about no more babies.
He assured me he would go have a reversal if it would make me happy. ?
He DOES love me. Lol
I will be okay, and i also know its what is best, for me and for our family. It just really is the hardest realization to come to!!!
I could have 100 kids and still feel this way i think.
I'm sorry you're feeling sad, mama. Hang in there. I'm pregnant with my last and it's definitely bittersweet. I know it's what's best, but I can't commit to surgery yet. On one hand I feel glad to complete my family and focus on the future, but on the other hand I'm sad that I'll never have another squishy little newborn. I get how you feel.
I think coming to realization this was your last baby is hard. I'm in a similar situation, kind of. We have three kids and have been trying for a fourth for nearly 5 years now. It's hard coming to terms that we want more, but that it might not be in our cards. I wish I would've cherished every newborn moment with my youngest that much more, but there was no way to predict the future and to know we'd deal with secondary infertility. I can't ever imagine saying I'm done
Oh, if reversal was an option, dh never would have agreed to it in the first place lol
I think its just going to be an emotional night at my house tonight. *sigh*
I thought so. Lol
Like youre sitting here in some really horrible pain, but youd be willing to do it all over again, just to make me happy? Hes totally content with our family the way it is, but knows how much i love having babies. So it would totally be just for me.
I know men do it all the time, but not mine. ;) lol