I feel the same way!! We are 11 weeks pregnant with number 3. It took me years to get pregnant with my first two so when we started trying for #3 i really thought it would be a while.... it was a month. We just bought our two bedroom house over the summer. I know exactly how you feel
I'm same as u 12wks today with surprise baby #4 I am over the moon and jst got my scan today and thought I was nervous of something being wrong but turns out I think I was nervous of seeing baby and how real it all feels now!!! I am so very much in love with this baby already and can not wait to meet he/she but I'm very nervous of what life will be like with 4... I'm here if u want to chat! ??
Sort of in the same boat...pregnant with surprise baby number 1..but I am a foster mom to my two younger siblings who have to each have their own rooms (dcfs rules)..so the plan is to move to a bigger apartment/house anyway..because I now need a 3 bedroom...dont want to talk about finances or things like that with my SO because he has 3 kids from a previous marriage and still going through things with all of that and house thats falling apart but he wont let go of...none of my friends are even remotely in a situation similar..so yea i can't talk to anyone either lol but freaking out a little with the pending "3 under 3" household that I will have...
im in same boat i have noone to talk to. my BF has her own life and dont care about mine. im preggo with baby number 3. def a suprise. we just bought a three bedroom house before we knew i was preggo. my MIL hates me and u hate her. the witch told my hubby to get a dna test just because she dont like me. inbox me if u wanna chat
Ours is number 3. Seriously, I have been donating, selling and giving away baby things as my 3-year-old outgrows them, hat is how sure we were that we were not having another.
Like you, I know we will love this baby just as much as the other two. But as of now, 11 weeks in, and the reality of it stubbornly refuses to settle in. Even with the nausea, the insomnia, the very obvious indications that I am pregnant, part of my brain just refuses to accept it.
I feel bad about this, and confused. But all I can do is take a day at a time and hope everyone ends up healthy at the end of it.
We weren't even kind of trying. The only thing we could have done differently was have me on the pill. So when my period was late, I was thinking there's no way I can be pregnant.
I'm teary reading your responses, bc I feel less horrible and a little more normal. I mean, the horrible feeling is still there, bc there are so many ppl who want babies and can't have them, and I'm overwhelmed at the thought of another one.
I feel the same. This is baby #3 for me. I have a 10 year old boy and a 2 year old girl, blossoming career and had just started Uni outside of work to further myself and provide for my family in the future. As much as I am sure I will love this baby I just don't feel as happy as I have done in my previous pregnancies. Throw in the fact I've been signed off work with hyperemesis and I have struggled to enjoy this pregnancy at all. Ladies, we are only human and sometimes we simply need a little extra time to adapt and get our heads around certain situations. Best of luck to you all, it will be fine in the end I am sure x
I am in the exact same boat! I am 9 weeks with baby number 4. I'm excited and worried, and overwhelmed all at the same time. We won't be able to move for at least a year and I'm worried how I'm going to fit everyone in our tiny 3 BDRM house. So I know exactly what you are going through.
Oh join the club, baby number 3 unexpected. However my SO has a son that frequents. Also needs a bigger house. 3 beds 1 bath, rancher no closet space. Just started a new job, at least I found it that won't be in jeopardy but the delivery, trying to be happy and not sad at the same time
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I feel the same way!! We are 11 weeks pregnant with number 3. It took me years to get pregnant with my first two so when we started trying for #3 i really thought it would be a while.... it was a month. We just bought our two bedroom house over the summer. I know exactly how you feel
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I'm same as u 12wks today with surprise baby #4 I am over the moon and jst got my scan today and thought I was nervous of something being wrong but turns out I think I was nervous of seeing baby and how real it all feels now!!! I am so very much in love with this baby already and can not wait to meet he/she but I'm very nervous of what life will be like with 4... I'm here if u want to chat! ??
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Sort of in the same boat...pregnant with surprise baby number 1..but I am a foster mom to my two younger siblings who have to each have their own rooms (dcfs rules)..so the plan is to move to a bigger apartment/house anyway..because I now need a 3 bedroom...dont want to talk about finances or things like that with my SO because he has 3 kids from a previous marriage and still going through things with all of that and house thats falling apart but he wont let go of...none of my friends are even remotely in a situation similar..so yea i can't talk to anyone either lol but freaking out a little with the pending "3 under 3" household that I will have...
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im in same boat i have noone to talk to. my BF has her own life and dont care about mine. im preggo with baby number 3. def a suprise. we just bought a three bedroom house before we knew i was preggo. my MIL hates me and u hate her. the witch told my hubby to get a dna test just because she dont like me. inbox me if u wanna chat
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Ours is number 3. Seriously, I have been donating, selling and giving away baby things as my 3-year-old outgrows them, hat is how sure we were that we were not having another.
Like you, I know we will love this baby just as much as the other two. But as of now, 11 weeks in, and the reality of it stubbornly refuses to settle in. Even with the nausea, the insomnia, the very obvious indications that I am pregnant, part of my brain just refuses to accept it.
I feel bad about this, and confused. But all I can do is take a day at a time and hope everyone ends up healthy at the end of it.
Larissa Anderson·
We weren't even kind of trying. The only thing we could have done differently was have me on the pill. So when my period was late, I was thinking there's no way I can be pregnant.
I'm teary reading your responses, bc I feel less horrible and a little more normal. I mean, the horrible feeling is still there, bc there are so many ppl who want babies and can't have them, and I'm overwhelmed at the thought of another one.
It's so nice to not feel alone in this.
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I feel the same. This is baby #3 for me. I have a 10 year old boy and a 2 year old girl, blossoming career and had just started Uni outside of work to further myself and provide for my family in the future. As much as I am sure I will love this baby I just don't feel as happy as I have done in my previous pregnancies. Throw in the fact I've been signed off work with hyperemesis and I have struggled to enjoy this pregnancy at all. Ladies, we are only human and sometimes we simply need a little extra time to adapt and get our heads around certain situations. Best of luck to you all, it will be fine in the end I am sure x
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I am in the exact same boat! I am 9 weeks with baby number 4. I'm excited and worried, and overwhelmed all at the same time. We won't be able to move for at least a year and I'm worried how I'm going to fit everyone in our tiny 3 BDRM house. So I know exactly what you are going through.
Larissa Anderson·
Eliz that is exactly our situation. My husband says two years before we can move, but I might strangle him if that's the case lol
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Oh join the club, baby number 3 unexpected. However my SO has a son that frequents. Also needs a bigger house. 3 beds 1 bath, rancher no closet space. Just started a new job, at least I found it that won't be in jeopardy but the delivery, trying to be happy and not sad at the same time
Larissa Anderson·
Lol not that I am enjoying u ladies' misery at all, but it's so nice to know I'm not alone.