Sad, just sad..... I'm becoming to realize that my relationship with SO is not healthy at all. The…
Sad, just sad.....
I'm becoming to realize that my relationship with SO is not healthy at all. The way he talks to me, the way he treats me, the way he controls me. I'm so damn dumb and blind. I've been with him for 3 years, making this my longest relationship yet, so I feel like I can't do shat without him, when in reality I know it'll be hard but I can do it. I'm so scared to leave. I guess I'm scared of being a single mom of two. I struggle every day with my boys, but I know I can do this. Now I just gather up all the courage and strength to leave and never ever ask him to come back. I'm so hurt and heartbroken, I love this man with my all, but my goodness, he is NOT the same man I fell in love with. ???
deleted-user·
I promise you, that as hard as it seems with your babies now, it actually is easier to do it alone than to do it in a toxic relationdhip.
You can absolutely go it alone and be a great mother.
Its hard to leave, i know that, and it hurts, but if you're not happy with how hes treating you then its better to be away from that.
No one putting you down, making you feel bad.
Honestly girl you got this. X
deleted-user·
I just left an 8 year toxic relationship and it's very hard but I'm at peace and I can finally breath free without feeling afraid or nervous around the person who's supposed to love and protect me . It's hard but it gets easier with time .
deleted-user·
Oh no. Can you guys work on it?
How does he treat you? Do you mind providing some details?
Ciara·
I pmd you @lil
deleted-user·
Ugh so much I wanna say but I don't want take over your post. Just know that you're worth is more than how he is treating you, you are WORTH MORE. Do not let a man treat you like you're inferior to him. I don't know you're full story, I just hope you gather enough courage and strength to move on once and for all.
Your boys deserve a role model for a father figure?
Sending so many prayers your way.