Why does it still bother me?
Why does it still bother me?
That my son's sperm donor has a 2nd baby that he cares for but never did for my son? What caused him to never want to be around for my son? Was he not good enough for him? I just really want to know WHY?! My son doesn't even know who his biological father is. It literally crushes me and breaks my heart for the sake of my son. He is so perfect in every single way and I just cannot imagine life without him. But why does it still bother me that he isn't around for MY son? Why didn't he ever try to be there for MY son? It just doesn't make sense to me.
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I had a similar situation. My ex husband abandoned my and our son to move back to Alaska. He doesn't contact me or care to see my son but he also has two babies that are 4 months apart with two other women now and he only sees them because one mom is still in love with him and the other mom is just nice and wants her son to know who his father is even if he is a pos. For a long time it hurt me when I thought about it because I couldn't understand why my son wasn't good enough. My DH is the only father he's ever known and I couldn't be more grateful.