Lets talk insecurities. Do you ladies have any insecurities and have got over them or do you still…
Lets talk insecurities.
Do you ladies have any insecurities and have got over them or do you still struggle with them? I do. I have a birthmark on my left eyelid and I've been bullied about it my whole life; even till this day. I do not like it at all. I don't like to talk about it or show it off. It has bothered me for so long and I just want to be able too love myself as I am but I struggle day to day with it. It's different and no one else in my family has one like I do but I also like to say that's what makes me "unique."
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Mine is weight and I still struggle with it.
I can sympathize with you on the birth mark I have an awful looking strawberry birth mark on my arm (looks like a massive zit) I haven't thought about it in years! Birthmarks are kisses from angels is what I've always been told.
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My eyebrows. I hate them. They grow so fast and I just don't have time to do them every single day. I get embarrassed because I feel it's the only thing people see when they talk to me, my unruly eyebrows.
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My weight, and I have thin hair. I started to lose hair in high school cause pcos dr said. Its never fully recovered. I used to have super thick hair. Its so noticeable. If I wear a ponytail you can see my scalp. So its always down.
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Oh and I have dark arm pits even though im.casper white. My ex made fun of me for that.
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I have a mustache ? and I'm hairy in general ?
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I've mentioned this many times. My nose was my biggest insecurity. If anyone commented on it I would cry to sleep. My nose stressed me out! Most people would tell me I look fine and nothing was wrong but I knew they were just trying to make me feel better. I could never love my self completely because of it. I had rhinoplasty done and it was the best decision ever !!! I walk and talk with confidence and I never care what people think anymore because I'm finally satisfied with myself !
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My smile. My smile is crooked and my teeth are all messed up but I've grown to be okay with it.
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I have small bewbs.
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Weight weight weight.
I've always had a 'muffin top' even when I was 140 lbs at 5'11. I've always been made fun of ? now I'm at 260 and I'm struggling everyday to lose weight. I'm down 10lbs, but it's taken 9 months. Between depression, anexity, and looking at a possiable pacemaker replacement strategy I'm torn down and haven't had the drive to push myself to lose weight.
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@Kay could we be sisters jk
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My face used to turn red with embarrassment everytime someone would even look in my direction. Now I can and often do speak in a room with a hundred plus people and not blink an eye.
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I have a birthmark under my armpit that is pretty much a huge mole. I used to get made fun of because of it when I raised my arm up in school. I've gotten over it since then when I started hanging around the right people who lifted me up instead of dragging me down.
Also my weight, even when I was a tiny 135 pound 15yo girl I thought I was big. Since I've started having kids I've gained a lot and can't get it off easily. My husband helps me a lot with it. He thinks I'm beautiful no matter what, and he's into bigger girls, so I have that going for me. ;) It's still something that bugs me though and I'm working to love myself while I'm still at my current weight. I can't really do much since I'm 31wks prego but I am watching my weight this time around. I didn't watch it with my first born.
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Let's see, from top to bottom?
My hair is never soft & shiny, my eyebrows are too thick, my skin is covered in blackheads, I have a lady stache, my boobs and butt aren't big enough, the rest of me is too big, my belly is super hairy, my stretch marks, my gut is disgusting, my legs and butt have cellulite, my feet are big and ugly, always rough and callousy. My knees are ugly, my nose is too big, my nails don't grow the right shape, etc... I could find think of more for sure lol. These are all things I have always struggled with for as long as I can remember and I honestly don't see it going away any time soon.
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@ail your beautiful!
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My height. I'm 6 feet tall and I always feel masculine.. Only a few inches taller then my so but I hate not being that small, petite girl. I do weigh way less then him though but I never feel comfortable sitting on his lap or him picking me up. I've gotten over it in some ways but he knows now I will never ever sit on his lap lol.. Trying to embrace my height but it's hard around all these small, cute pretty girls ?
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I was very body conscious for years. I hated every bit of it. Ended up showering in a swimming costume until my mum caught me and I went for counselling! (I was quite young)
My SO has given me confidence I never thought I'd have. He reminds me how he loves every part of me frequently and I don't even recognise the old me!
That kid ashamed of her body now walks round the house butt naked after a shower confident as anything.
Somehow the right person can make all your worries go away and I honestly feel loved exactly the way I am now! ☺️
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That said I think we are all damn beautiful!
And all of us have or are in the process of growing another life so let's face it we are killing it! ?❤️
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I'm always scared people can smell me. Like in a bad way.
My nose. I grew up around racists. I wasn't white enough because my nostrils flare and consume my face. Like a pig is what I was told.
I got over this. After a teacher pointed out everyone has a facial feature that isn't "perfect" that they hate.
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Learning disabilities... I always wish I was smarter. I feel like everyone know so much more then I do. I've always struggled since I was in kindergarten (I'm 39yo)
My brain just doesn't work right =/
I can never concentrate long enough to understand how to understand stuff. Especially math . My SO is like a dang calculator.he can figure out any math problem I'm his head super fast...
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I've always weight about 105 lbs. I have always thought I'm too skinny and so I don't wear dresses or shorts for that reason. I feel like a stick all dressed up. I dislike my thin legs.