OH with no sex drive Its been months and my OH just has no sex drive at all. He says he is tired as…
OH with no sex drive
Its been months and my OH just has no sex drive at all. He says he is tired as he is working alot to get the money for our wedding but i cant help but feel insecure. After my c section iv been so self conscious about my stomach and just everything really . He says he loves my body and finds me attractive but i cant help feel down when he dosent want me! Am i over reacting???
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Nope, stress can do it and he may be worried. He still loves you, he's saving to get married. Maybe after having your little one he's worried to see you in pain again? Maybe he's worried he won't be able to dtd due to stress etc.
Try talking to him? Maybe suggest a date night. Sort a sitter and go out. Doesn't have to cost even a walk can help the two of you and rekindle that desire.
My friends husband couldn't perform after she'd had their ds as he saw her as a mother figure not a sexual partner. Took some working out and counselling xx
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See for us it's the other way round , I have zero sex drive like I'd be happy to never do it again I have no idea why because I am so attracted to my boyfriend & love him so much so it's strange
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Sophie, I'm exactly the same! I still find my partner attractive and love him to bits, it I could quite happily have it like once a month if that ?x