Co-sleeping and your partner !????
Co-sleeping and your partner !????
What are your partners thoughts and comments about you co-sleeping with your little one, it's always been a struggle with me and my oh as he hates me co sleeping but I don't see how I'm supposed to be rested to take care of our child if I don't co sleep.. So yeah what do your OHs think of it !?
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Most nights my husband is in the spare room so we all get a half decent sleep, he snores too much and I'm still doing 2-3 night feeds and dealing with a teething baby who is just wide awake sometimes!
I've had 2 and a half years of broken sleep and co-sleeping is the only thing that has saved my sanity the past 6 months, Skye settles back to sleep instantly beside me where as she wakes loads if she goes back in her cot. No point in us all being sleep deprived so we do what works! :) I keep telling my husband it's only temporary and she'll be in her own bed eventually! x
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My husband fully supported co sleeping with both our boys. Ensured I got a chance to rest. He was just keen both baby and mummy were happy xx
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My OH supports it, we didn't for the first two weeks with Isaac and we struggled getting him in his moses basket so much it was horrible. He saw how beneficial it was for me because I lost out on maybe an hours sleep total per night, we plan to cosleep from the word go with our daughter and he is more than happy with my decision ? x
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We used a bedside crib and co slept that way until about 4 months. She'd end up next to me 5 nights out of 7 though. When she went into her room she slept better but when she's teething wakes more. He says to bring her in with us as he knows we'll both get more sleep but it's rare I do. I don't sleep as well as I get paranoid about waking her or her rolling out, now that she can! I'd rather have less good quality sleep than hours of uncomfortable dozing!
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I hated co sleeping myself. My son went in his own room at 10 days old.
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Tillycones to our bed when she wakes at night anytime from 12-4 am and my oh doesn't mind at all xxx
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It's always been a big no no from my oh. Xx
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my oh works 4 to 6 nights a week so doesn't sleep in the bed much with us apart from 6 am to whenever we get up. he's not too keen on it but works for me and freya. x
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We do it not all the time jst depends if Theo doesn't settle back in his cot that's in our rm he will jst come into bed with us both my hubby supports whatever I want to go with and what's easier for me we have four kids and there has been nites all 6 of us are in the bed?!!!!!! It's not forever and I would always try to settle in own cot first!! Jst aswell we have a super king size bed?
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My oh doesn't mind in fact he enjoys having them in and close to us, we use to do a lot of bed swapping in our home to make sure we all got a good nights sleep, my baby is 15 months old so sleeps in his cot most of the night but if he wakes after 4am or is unsettled il put him in with us, last night our 4 year old camped out in our room on an air bed too ha x
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My oh don't mind but I bloody do! Hate kids in my bed ?
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My oh doesn't seem to mind. I think he's actually happy he gets to sleep 3rd time round as I combifed with my 1st and 2nd.
This time I'm ebf and he feeds constantly. At least once an hour. So he knows I have no choice but to cosleep as I have two others to look after there's no chance to catch up on sleep.
He knows it's not forever and he knows I love it too. I think he quite likes waking up to him too ? xx
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We had the baby in between us many nights, if he ever comes to bed with us now, he'll still be between us
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My oh is fine with it he tells me to bring him in the end if he won't settle in his cot x