Unwanted not needed stress :(
Unwanted not needed stress :(
Trying to explain to your old fashioned Catholic father that it takes good people to be be good parents not a good marriage is like smacking your head off a brick wall :( not what I need when I'm 37 weeks pregnant him on the phone saying how upset he is and thought I would "come to my senses" and get married before the baby is born.. Just one way to put a downer on my day .. Thanks dad
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Just ignore it. I had my first 6 years ago and we wasn't married we finally got married last year and found out two days later I was pregnant. It's not like it used to be when it was always marriage before but some people find it hard to accept all you need to do is prove him wrong ? xx
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It's hard, but try not to let it upset you. In time people will say far worse to you and concerning every aspect of child rearing what to do, how to do it etc. remember it's your life and you run it the way it works for you.
what matters is your relationship is strong and you both love your baby smile and good luck with your baby x
Chloe Swanston ·
Aww thank you ladies that really cheered me up xx
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No disrespect to you dad or anything. But it's 2015. If anything more people.have children before there married then people who marry first. It's just how society is now a days isn't strict like it was all those years ago. It's no one else's choice but yours when you decide to have a baby. I'm engaged to my partner and we want kids before we get married just so they can share the special day with us. Don't worry :) xx
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I wouldn't let it get you down Hun, my dad is the total opposite he keeps telling me and my sisters don't get married and waste money lol a lot of couples get married first then get divorced because raising a family is to much I always think if you can live together and raise a child then that's the hard part of the relationship done marriage will be a breeze ?
Chloe Swanston ·
I'm engaged to my OH too I think that's the reason he thought we were getting married before the baby. We do want to get married of corse but I just feel like it will happen when the time is right and personally for me id rather not be 9 months pregnant on my wedding day xx
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Tell ur dad it says in the bible when a man lays with a woman in God's eye you are a married couple..that's how they use to do it in the bible.
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I have many friends that done things the traditional way....marriage and then children, and have since divorced after a few years max of marriage and are now single mums.
Marriage has never bothered me or my partner, we have one 2.5yr old and another on its way, and are as happy as ever.
Marriage is very important to some people, and although I would like to marry my partner in the future.... It doesn't always keep families together. As long as you are happy, that's the main thing.
My mum is a Minister, but luckily has very modern views. X