Help me out ladies I'm comfortable enough and know most of you well enough to ask, How the heck do I…
Help me out ladies
I'm comfortable enough and know most of you well enough to ask, How the heck do I get in the mood. It's been since April 23rd. Poor DH is going crazy. I wanna but I just can't seem to get in the mood, and if I have even a spark I'm too tired to do anything. TMI warning: DH is more than happy to just let me lay there while he does his thing, but I don't think that's fair to him. Please help me out. Even just letting me know I'm not alone. But what's worked for you?
deleted-user·
Not much help but I'm not cleared just yet, next week I will be but I haven't even thought of sex. Like it even one time. I feel ya on the too tired thing. Plus there's a baby next to our bed. And there's not much time bc SO is back at work, unless we were to interrupt our much needed sleep.
Mary·
Thank you! Ive been cleared, but everything else is my exact situation. I'm glad I'm not weird or broken.
deleted-user·
Fake it till you make it.
deleted-user·
I'm no help either! I just got cleared and I'm perfectly ok with just laying there ? I'm soooo tired and I'm breastfeeding with an oversupply already and I leak sooo bad and it ruins the mood for me. In my head leaking boobs mean my baby's hungry.
Mary·
You ladies crack me up.
So, should I put a picture of Ryan Renyolds or Chris Hemsworth on my ceiling so i have a focal point while I'm just laying there while he does what he needs to do? ???? I love you mommas!
deleted-user·
Haven't had any action since March. Haven't thought about it once!
deleted-user·
You are not alone. I have fleeting urges that last about 2 minutes sometimes, but then the tired feeling comes back. I turn hubby down a lot, but put forth some effort for him once a week or so. Wish it were different.
Mary·
So we ended up doing it. Lol. I was falling asleep but that didn't deter him. Lmao. I'm awake now. Thanks for the confidence boost ladies.
deleted-user·
Yay!!