Just gonna say it.. I have my 6 week on the 6th, hubby is excited for our "clearance" I however for…

I won't have my postpartum appt til June 30th due to availability. I will be 6 weeks around third week of June. I'm actually very excited for sexy time to happen, as is my husband. As far as my lady bits, I had a vagina delivery with tear which is still healing. I plan on making sure there's plenty of lube and going slow. Until then, hubby and I have been keeping it sexy in the bedroom in other ways...lol. Sorry if that's TMI ?

Lol, never too much TMI for me. I was definitely wondering about lube, Ill probably keep it on hand. We tried being sexy once and it ended up with me giggling the whole time cause it felt like a junior high make out session. I think I'm focusing on it too much instead of just letting it happen.

We never use lube at all...just natural lubrication lol. But I think hubby and I will take a trip to an adult store just for fun and as a treat to him. We will get some lube juuuust in case as 6 weeks is a long time for us to go without sex and I wanna be fully prepared. I bet I will feel like a little high schooler too as the day approaches haha!! I'm pretty sure hubby is counting down the days on the calendar lol!!

Just an FYI after my son it was awful we needed tons of lube and it still felt like he was slicing me open with a knife, we waited the 6 weeks and I was cleared but it was uncomfortable and he said def tighter than before I'm guessing bc of stitches. But it literally was like being a virgin again. It didn't get comfortable for me for a couple months. My 6 week appointment is June 9 so we'll see how this one goes after but I'm not looking forward to it I'm not gonna lie

Post baby sex felt even better than pre baby sex. I just feel so much more love for my hubby. It was a wee bit painful at first but that went away quickly. You'll enjoy it mama!

I agree with madd sexy time after waiting is the best I don't wait close to that but it still feels great

I'm a little nervous too and I had an unplanned c section lol. Nervous bc I had my pp appointment the other day and when dr put the speculum in I felt soooo small! Probably bc we haven't done it in forever! I'm finally in the mood again, but I think I'm getting the paraguard iud first.

Hearing everyone saying they are tighter makes me feel better and less insecure. One of my biggest fears is everything being all loosey goosey and floppity. Damien had a gigantic head so all I can picture is a deflated balloon blowing in the breeze ?? I don't have the nerve to inspect my goodie pieces so I'm going in blind.

I think I'm most afraid of getting pregnant again right now. I love my baby but I'll be honest, I'm not even sure if there is a second baby in our future and I am positive that second baby will not be here in the next year.

Got my clearance from dr yesterday. Had our sexy time ladt night. I gotta tell ya...I woke up soooooo refreshed and in a good mood. Late night feeding and early morning feeding did not bother me like they usually do. My fiance woke up this morning and said, "You're in a chipper mood!!" I said, "Well yea! Those late night activities is what did it!!"

Ha!! Seriously. What a release.

I don't have to worry too much about getting pregnant. I have PCOS so getting pregnant without medical intervention is not very likely. My first son took 3 years and Damien took 5. (although we will still use protection cause I'm not taking the 1% chance).

ETA: hubby definitely wants to try for another at about 1 year. My boys just took so long I wanna take my time with them, not to mention I'm turning 36 in July and don't know how much energy I have left lol.

Omg Mary when you said windsock I died laughing. Threw my head back n had a good cackle. Don't worry so much. He loves you first of all, plus all the anticipation, and guys will stick their ding dong in a sock for crying out loud.

@jess.. oh boy do I know. Lol, my hubby said he understands my insecurities but he'll be happy just being with me. Of course right as I went to hug him for being so sweet he had to add that he'd "do" my knee bend at this point for all he cares. SMDH ?

I just wanted to comment that "snake crawling in a train tunnel" made me laugh SO hard!!

I had a VBAC so I have zero words of encouragement as idk what to expect either ?

@berry. I'm Glad i gave you a good laugh. ❤ It was so hard to find a way to explain things without being to graphic lmao.

With my 1st son last year we waited 5 nearly 6 weeks before having sex again cuz i was really nervous(vaginal birth, no tears so no stitches) and it was a bit uncomfortable cuz i was so nervous and this time we only waited 4weeks(vaginal birth with 2nd degree tear and stitches) and this time It was absolutely fine! Just make sure your REALLY wet!

So here's what I got from this post:

1. Lube is good, the wetter the better.. get my vag to being as close to a slip and slide as I can.

2. Relax and just enjoy it, but go SLOW. This is sex not a demolition derby

3. Husbands will hump you regardless of floppity bits

4. Have fun!!!

Did I miss anything?

☝️☝️Yes!! You will wake up feeling like a new woman!! Lol

Lmao this post! ??? thanks for making my afternoon. My kids are looking at me like I'm a loony. Three babies later and my dears are still the same. I think it's the anticipation but once it happens it's like omg all that worry for nothing! Lol good luck mama!

Bawhahahaha your DH is just as funny as you Mary!

He has his moments, which I love cause normally he's a very serious person so I love when he puts on his jack*** hat every now and then.