I feel the same! I haven't really felt mine move yet, and people try to feel I'm like "look, if I haven't felt him move I'm sure as s*** sure you ain't gonna either!" Ugh.. im a thick girl as it us too so I don't feel like they are feeling my baby, just get your hand off my fat! Lol my Bf is the only one who has the right to touch the belly, in my opinion anyways lol don't be scare to tell people to back off anything you're uncomfortable with!
I'm having twins so I usually say you can feel them if you want but they are currently kicking on the exit door! That generally puts people off! You will feel baby soon! :)
I usually just say I am not comfortable with any one touching my stomach yet. I have this lady a work who just didn't get the hint. I finally just said there isn't anything to feel yet!! I will let you know when you can and she hasn't done it again. But jeeesh!! People are way too touchy for my liking. I must have a dirtiest look on my face when people try. Ooh well at least they will get the hint.
I am okay for people to touch my belly if they ask or I tell them they can but just coming up I find it to be rude and my baby doesn't move for just anyone.. I feel like I'd rather tell the person hey come feel this when he's moving but when they just randomly touch I feel like there just touching my fat belly! Although I don't consider my belly fat I'm growing a little human but just the best way to describe it lol
One of my sis twins loves to hit on my belly. She says "get out Frankie" and she always asks me when she's coming out. I don't mind cuz she couldn't even hurt a fly. The twins are skin and bones, it so funny to see them trying to hurt something. But I don't really like adults touching me too much. Maybe after her kicks are noticeable, then it may be better.
I like it if they are touching where my baby is. Im 22 weeks on thursday so just approaching my bellybutton. When they touch above, thats just my guts so that feels weird. I tell them shes right here you can feel how its hard over here. Then they want to feel that so they move, haha.
Don't get me wrong when they get Stronger at kicking I want people to feel them. But only at my invite! Now everyday she asks me if they are moving. My answer yes all the time! I would be worry if they weren't!
I hate it! Especially when they are feeling right over my belly button & are suddenly like "oh my word,is that your belly button! It's sticking out!" & I'm like yes,I'm aware of that & it really tickles so move! ;)
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I feel the same! I haven't really felt mine move yet, and people try to feel I'm like "look, if I haven't felt him move I'm sure as s*** sure you ain't gonna either!" Ugh.. im a thick girl as it us too so I don't feel like they are feeling my baby, just get your hand off my fat! Lol my Bf is the only one who has the right to touch the belly, in my opinion anyways lol don't be scare to tell people to back off anything you're uncomfortable with!
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I'm having twins so I usually say you can feel them if you want but they are currently kicking on the exit door! That generally puts people off! You will feel baby soon! :)
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Oh that's very rude indeed! It's "nasty germs season" and I would freak if someone touched me! Lol. I do not even shake people's hands anymore.
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I usually just say I am not comfortable with any one touching my stomach yet. I have this lady a work who just didn't get the hint. I finally just said there isn't anything to feel yet!! I will let you know when you can and she hasn't done it again. But jeeesh!! People are way too touchy for my liking. I must have a dirtiest look on my face when people try. Ooh well at least they will get the hint.
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I don't mind it. People just do it because they are happy and excited not meaning any harm
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I am okay for people to touch my belly if they ask or I tell them they can but just coming up I find it to be rude and my baby doesn't move for just anyone.. I feel like I'd rather tell the person hey come feel this when he's moving but when they just randomly touch I feel like there just touching my fat belly! Although I don't consider my belly fat I'm growing a little human but just the best way to describe it lol
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One of my sis twins loves to hit on my belly. She says "get out Frankie" and she always asks me when she's coming out. I don't mind cuz she couldn't even hurt a fly. The twins are skin and bones, it so funny to see them trying to hurt something. But I don't really like adults touching me too much. Maybe after her kicks are noticeable, then it may be better.
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My hubby felt my boys for the first time at 22 weeks. I hate when people ask how far along I am then give me a strange look like you're huge. :(
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I like it if they are touching where my baby is. Im 22 weeks on thursday so just approaching my bellybutton. When they touch above, thats just my guts so that feels weird. I tell them shes right here you can feel how its hard over here. Then they want to feel that so they move, haha.
Tammy·
Don't get me wrong when they get Stronger at kicking I want people to feel them. But only at my invite! Now everyday she asks me if they are moving. My answer yes all the time! I would be worry if they weren't!
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I hate it! Especially when they are feeling right over my belly button & are suddenly like "oh my word,is that your belly button! It's sticking out!" & I'm like yes,I'm aware of that & it really tickles so move! ;)