I’ve had enough. (Long) I haven’t been honest with y’all. For so long I pretended to have the…

Maybe you already grieved the loss of the relationship a long time ago. That's what happened for me in my previous abusive relationship. Once I was done, I was DONE and felt nothing.

Hugs and good luck getting through this. Don't let him talk his way back.

If he's telling you things about not wanting to live etc it's just manipulation. People that honestly are in danger of hurting themselves don't use it as a threat. You need to do what you have to, to be happy and an example for your kids. Stay strong.

I definitely agree with what Lil said.

Maybe you said goodbye a long time ago and just didn't know it until now.

It's not a bad thing.

If he's abusing you, just know it's ALWAYS the right thing to get out. You deserve to feel safe and free from harm.

Now the feelings... if you didn't say you were an empath I would say your probably just over it. But in this case you may have been blocking for so long you don't know how you actually feel.

Having said that I don't think you should take down your blocks and explore until your safe to do so.

I feel the way you do when I'm just so far done with a relationship. So I think it's normal that you feel nothing and no it doesn't make you a bad person. He's being manipulative and all the stuff he's saying isn't your problem.

I see his heart breaking and I feel so bad for the pain he feels but I myself just feel nothing about the decision.

You got this girl! Many times you’ve asked for change he never did so time to move on.

Not crying at this moment is not bad of you, if have been wishing for change for a long time you've probably already done your share crying honestly it's his turn to feel bad, he'll be just fine don't let him put any guilt on you, you got this stay strong for you and littles

You have to do what’s best for YOU!

He’s manipulating you by saying things like that. He might be hurt but don’t forget how much he’s hurt you. Let that “I feel bad for him” turn into anger to help and push you in the right direction for you.

You did what you could do while he didn’t do anything on his part. Actions speak louder than words.

Wishing you the best! ❤️

Honey, you are not a bad person. There is nothing wrong with how you feel nor your decision. It shows how much he hasn’t changed to say he can’t live if you’re not with him. Completely manipulative. You are 100% making the right decision to leave. You deserve to be happy. To be in a healthy relationship (one day.)

You aren’t a bad person, you’re doing what you need to do for your children and yourself. You’re being the bigger person by putting your current emotions on the back burner because you know it’s best for all of you in the long run. He’s a big boy, he has to learn to take care of himself.

You are a brave, strong, resilient person. You know that this is the right thing to do and you're doing it. It's always hard to see others in pain. It means that you are a caring person. But it is not your place to fix his pain. He needs to suffer the consequences of his actions in order to have a chance to learn from it and make positive changes in his future.

Oh no hun! I'm sorry you have been going through this without support! No you are doing the right thing. You stand up to him dont let him trick you into anything you are better than that and you and your babies deserve better! Be strong hun! ?

You’re right that’s not fair of him to say those things to u!!! He’s trying to manipulate his way back in so u give him another chance. U know what you’re doing is right for u and your kids. Good luck I’m hoping u can make the best of this and know you’re better and deserve better