Is this weird? ..........

Yeah that wouldn't be considered breastfeeding mother. That would be considered a sexual act in public. Even if he was nursing I don't think they can skate by that one to the police.

I think it could still be considered indecent exposure maybe? Or a sexual act.

The police aren't going to care if you're lactating or not. Grown men shouldn't be sucking on boobs in public.

Even in private, I think it's super creepy. (While lactating) ???

Way weird, and way TMI. Bye!

That seriously weirds me out. Someone has mommy issues.. ?

Yeah...they need to stick to doing that behind closed doors

I was like oh what is you doin? Like I said do what you please behind closed doors but that's too much. ??‍♀️

I never knew this was a thing until I nursed my first, but the lactation nurse said it's actually pretty common. But def not ok to do it in public.

LOL

Big fat nope

I mean I can see how it's normal for the SO to want to try it. But to actually want to nurse? Like feed from her until she's empty? That's really weird IMO LOL.

@jess it's common? Really?!?

Weird af.

Make me think of season 2 (asylum) of American horror story. When lanas son gets that lady at the end to nurse from her.

Pp I know I don't even know her THAT well. This was the first time I talked to her in a long time.

Ew. I'd tell her she most certainly would get in trouble because its a grown man not her child.

Breastfeeding shouldn't be sexualized. That's seriously so weird and creepy to me. Even more weird that she would tell you this information. But yes, she can get in trouble for letting her creep ass husband suck on her boobs in public. You should suggest therapy.

Very weird she would tell you this. If it was me, I wouldn't tell my closest friend. Lol. So gross and weird!

? I've officially heard it all. Weird is kind of an understatement here in my opinion. ?

Ew. Gross. Both. Some things do not need to be shared

Weird af! I wouldn't even have been able to carry on that conversation. ?

Ummmm nah ?? that's tooooo much! It was weird the husband wanted to nurse but then in public and she's turned on by it? Wtf? Idk what I would do if I saw that in public. And something about making any part of breastfeeding sexual makes me feel gross.

Lmao he's ones of those adult babies. I wouldn't be surprised if he's into wearing diapers too. Some men have the weirdest fetishes

I think she's having you on.

I believe that's weird. To each their own but I can't even wrap my finger around why that MIGHT be sexy... lol. Sounds so weird. I'm kinky but not THAT kind of kinky.

What the actual f***?!?!?

She's gotta be messing with you. Who would actually tell someone that?

Why must people sexualize breastfeeding ?

I hope she's joking lol

That sounds like he has some serious jealousy issues.

What the fack did I just read?! ?

In public or not, having a grown man nurse on you is weird.

What in the fiery f*** ?!

What in the.....im sitting here stunned that I just read that and my husband is laughing hysterically

Weirdos like this are the reason breastfeeding mothers get harrassed ?

Hubby said let them do it and then laugh when they both have to register as sex offenders. ? yeah we have a twisted sense of humor

I also have heard it's actually pretty common, just not talked about, actually there are guys that post on the net, who'll actually pay a girl to allow them to nurse on her....

And others who'll buy breast milk in jars....

It's actually more common then people think.

I'm happy my husband doesn't think that way....

Wow..... just.... Wow ?

Hmmmm maybe I should pump and sell my breast milk. ??

Weird af ??

Pp you'd make damn good money... ?

Not only for the kinky guys but a lot of body builders will buy jars of breast milk instead of using steroids....

I don't know all the specifics but I've heard of it quite a bit hahah ??

????? how are we all not millionaires at this point

A lady in my birth month group had a guy contact her on Facebook and offer her $500 if he could nurse.

If you go k line to any site selling bm a lot of the sites will say like infant use only and no wet nursing.

Ain't y'all ever watched jerry springer? People like having others change their diapers and weird crap... gosh some people are so twisted.

Also, body builders use it.

I tried to sell my bm one time (had a ton of excess and was in a bind to pay some bills).. posted an ad... had about 15 emails in 20 min! I was like dang I'm gonna make so much money! All my bills gonna be paid!

Every.. last... one of them were adult men wanting to nurse from me.. I got offers from $100 for 20 min to $500 of I nursed him while singing lullabyes.. they didn't even wanna see what I looked like! It blew my mind!!!

And I didn't even get to sell any of it.. :/

Yup. It's a thing. ??

http://www.rollingstone.com/culture/features/inside-the-misunderstood-world-of-adult-breastfeeding-w436234

https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/nz88eg/suck-on-this-adult-breastfeeding-relationships-and-those-who-love-them

$500 seriously? You know if I wasn't married....?????

We have had quite a bit of creeps work their way through the milksharing pages I admin. ?

@angle im thinking the same thing.

Asking for a friend where can I find these weirdos to nurse for $500 a pop?

@beauty... good ol craigslist! Lol

I jokingly told my husband if I wasn't married (and had a big tough dude to stand there and make sure the creep didn't do anything), I might be convinced for $500 bucks! Lol

All I need is to be unmarried and have some mase. I could make bank real quick. Lol

Are you sure her DH (disgusting human) isn't on her page causing drama for her friends. That's actually a weird convo to have right off the bat after not talking in awhile.

Disgusting human????

I told my husband the same. I was like man if I wasn't married I'd be doing so major shopping ??

There are pages out there telling people how to make cheese and such from BM... it sells for soooo much $$.... so while this doesn't totally surprise me, I still find it pretty gross ? Neither DH or I have tried my BM... like, it's for the kids ?

@abrich wth!? ???

This is funny and disgusting. Lol for each their own.

?? I'm laughing at the comments! "Disgusting human"??

Lmao uh thank you for the laugh hahaha. Wow. Some people have very weird fetishes. Who shares one like that?? I mean I tried my milk and didn't mind it hubby was cuRious but doesn't want to try just wondered what it tastes like lmao i told him like warm sweet milk but that was the end of that convo. Hell hes not even a fan of breast play while I'm lactating cause he doesn't want to waste the babies milk by accidentally get squirted by it bahaha. This is too weird and funny I feel like some video is gonna end up on YouTube of them...

It sounds like you don't really talk to her so shes probably just messing around with you.

Yeah I mean we're not bffs I was good friends with her in high school then we just drifted apart. She's with the same guy she was in high school too. I've met him maybe twice but we were teenagers. Over the last 7 years it's been a message every once in awhile saying hey how are you type deal.

wtf did i just read ? in public? i hope she's just messing with you. too weird that she's telling you this.

ew what a bunch of weirdos!!!! To each their own but ew. ??????

This just made me very uncomfortable who'd seriously even think of that. *gag