Just got to vent. Am i wrong for being upset and angry.
Just got to vent.
Am i wrong for being upset and angry.
I have 3 kids but my fiance decided that was it without even talking to me. Like i want to at least want 2 more later in life but hes set on his decision.
If we have a long future together arent you suppose to talk to each other about having more kids or just decide without consulting with your s/o.
Im just pretty upset about it.
M H K S·
This is defiantly one of those conversations that need to happen before you marry someone, I'd be upset too seeing as he didn't discuss this with you, yet intends on a future with you. It sounds like you both need to sit down and have a good talk. I mean its not wrong of him to only want a certain amount of kids, and it's not wrong for you to want more, but on that same note, it is something you both need to be on the same page about.
Jess🌹♥️·
you're not wrong for being upset, idk how long y'all been together... but maybe his mind will change in time. he likes your girls, right?
Kayla M.·
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@trailer_trash_queen yeah i told him how many i wanted after our first daughter and now hes like nope no more.
Kayla M.·
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@boymamachronicles 5yrs well yeah he loves them their his kids. I hope. I mean accidentally getting pregnant and know he didnt want the baby will hurt. But then again thats why im like nope no sexual activity for me
Jess🌹♥️·
@ppb14pj16, oh! my bad mama, i thought they were only your girls.— agreed with above, y'all should discuss first, maybe ask why he just doesn't want anymore, remind him why babies are sooOoOo amazing 😍 life is so unpredictable sometimes, if you did get pregnant it could be a blessing in disguise, he may change his mind right then. i would try having the conversation again 😕
Kayla M.·
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@boymamachronicles no pro lem girl. Every time i do he shuts it down. Like im saying like maybe 4yrs from now have another maybe 5 but idk.
Jess🌹♥️·
@ppb14pj16, with a time gap like that he should definitely keep an open mind!
Kayla M.·
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Thats what im saying he finishes school for HVAC (air conditioning) and ill be barely graduating with my bachelors degree for elementary education and asl interpreter we'll have our life together