Does this look good for us and our move?
Hex literally drove 8 hours, picked SS8 up and dumped him at her moms for the weekend.
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It might have no bearing. HEX would leave SD with MIL on her weekends. When we were negotiating the CO the lawyer said that HEX can do with SD whatever she wants on her time, just as DH could in his.
I’d document it but wouldn’t hold my breath that it would be sufficient for a change in custody or modification of CO, either of which I believe would be the greatest concern with your move.
We live 4hrs away from SD. DH has always exercised his EOWE visitation. Usually we would stay by MIL on those weekends, and sometimes make the 8hr round trip each way to bring her here. At a certain point she would be considered old enough to travel on her own but neither parent were comfortable with that option. Since I’m no longer a part of visitation, DH just goes on his own.
The big thing about moving is that you guys would be on the hook for travel expenses in addition to your current CS order. As long as you’re willing to absorb the extra cost then I don’t see why your move would be denied.
Omg guess what?! She did it again!!! Left him at her moms the entire weekend! It's now been 6 weeks since she spent any time with him! We're hoping that this looks good for us!!!
I think it would. Of course document everything, but I'm sure you already are.
It really depends on the judge. Some of them are reasonable but others make stupid decisions that aren't in the best interest of the child because they're idiots.
Do you know if your potential judge is an idiot or someone that actually sees reason?
@meesh were custodial and Hex doesn't pay CS but if we're responsible for all travel expenses then you can bet your ass well put her on CS as soon as we land in our new home. She literally contributes nothing to him.
Her mom has CPS history for leaving SS with abusers even after we told her about it. He was 3 and 4. Nothing came of it but it still looks really bad. And our judge already dislikes Hex for straight up lying to him in the court papers and directly to his face multiple times. We disproved all of her lies once we came back two years later and fought for SS8. And our lawyer, the mediator and judge already told her that although she can choose what to do with her parenting time if looks bad that even as a noncustodial she's flakey and doesn't take her phone calls or time.