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Sammi Brokaw·Мама двоих (9 лет, 16 лет)
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SS7 bit DS16months several times the night before going to Hex's (last Thursday). Then he bit himself.

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I’d be documenting that for the upcoming court case.

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Sammi Brokaw·Мама двоих (9 лет, 16 лет)

So SS admitted that Hex and her family's PASing is causing him to hurt his brother several times. He's at Hex's house for a visit now. We aren't sure how to respond s to that but he didn't/is not going to be moving back into his bedroom as planned. We're going to be calling councilors to get him out of Talk Therapy and into Play Therapy and other groups.

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Sammi Brokaw·Мама двоих (9 лет, 16 лет)

So SS admitted that Hex and her family's PASing is causing him to hurt his brother several times. He's at Hex's house for a visit now. We aren't sure how to respond s to that but he didn't/is not going to be moving back into his bedroom as planned. We're going to be calling councilors to get him out of Talk Therapy and into Play Therapy and other groups.

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Sammi Brokaw·Мама двоих (9 лет, 16 лет)

UPDATE: So we've been having him sleep in the den. We just bought a futon so he's sleeping on that. He'll be moving back to his room today. Praying all goes well.

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Yes like she said to be supervised around baby and when he is close to going with mom probably keep baby away at that time if he can't control himself?

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i completely agree with shari, but i also wouldnt so much keep the baby away from him, more like make sure i supervise all the time. to me it seems clear as day this little boy is going through something hard he cant express properly.

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Awe that's really sad for the baby.

Why's he flipping out over going with his mom? Sounds like major anxiety! Should he be going?

Definitely keep him away from baby and look into play therapy counseling. If it's not dealt with it will only get worse and he'll end up hurting someone worse as he gets older and stronger or cutting himself to release the pain/anxiety he feels inside. Some may say spank his bum but that's not getting to the root cause of his acting out and will only temporarily tame his behaviour and with some children spanking their bum just makes them more aggressive. He needs help dealing with those strong emotions.

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7 is old enough to understand that biteing is wrong. It's not ok to hurt someone. I would handle that the same way you handle other things so he gets a clear picture it's not ok.

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The way I handled it with my kids, I bit them back. Obviously not hard but enough for them to never again bite anyone.

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Was it die to having to go with bio mom.

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