Sammi Brokaw
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Sammi Brokaw·Мама двоих (9 лет, 16 лет)

SS School doesn't care what I say

We asked to block Hex's mom-ok no problem. When SS said she showed up today I called the school and they told me that she's his grandmother and they will let her in and basically don't care what I have to say about it. I said so can anyone just come see my kid? They said no but that's his grandmother so I can't stop her and they will be letting her in until I get a court order saying she can't see her grandson. Hex's mom knows people at the school so she has an "In." Needless to say I called the Superintendent and spoke with his receptionist who was appalled at how the school is behaving. I threatened to sue them if my son is ever kidnapped. She said they'll call me back to set up a meeting.

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sammibrokaw4594
Sammi Brokaw·Мама двоих (9 лет, 16 лет)

I have a meeting with the principal tomorrow. Fingers crossed!!!!! ?????

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sammibrokaw4594
Sammi Brokaw·Мама двоих (9 лет, 16 лет)

SS principal called me. We're playing phone rage right now but I'll let y'all know when I hear something. Fingers crossed they take this seriously?

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sammibrokaw4594
Sammi Brokaw·Мама двоих (9 лет, 16 лет)

That's crazy! And yes I threatened to sue them already. I don't think I can really do anything unless she or someone else actually takes SS7. So basically we have to deal with Hex's constant PASing and then every single day we have to deal with it from someone who's just allowed to waltz into school and poison him against us?! If that's truly the case then I'm really going to push DH to move us out of the area once he graduates the police academy next month. Nope I am SO DONE with the drama.

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Sd6 school will let anyone in, you just sign in and choose a class. I’ve gone to see sd and they didn’t even check my id they just let me in.

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I wonder how they verified she’s actually the grandma. Did she bring documents ? I’d sue them or at least threaten to sue for this.

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I had this issue. I had to prove to the school i was DSs Mother because SM put herself as mom and that I was EXs ex gf that wanted DS. It was a hassle they needed the court order and all my info took months. The school system is a mess when it comes to blended families

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That makes no sense... with my sons school I had to fill out emergency contacts all over the card of people who "might" pick him up after school because me and his dad work days and anyone not on that card is not allowed to take him and definitely not allowed to come see him

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You need to have a lawyer draft a letter. Can you switch schools? If so I would. Is there a way to get a restraining order? If not, I would have the attorney request copies of the video of the visits at school. I would want to know what she's saying and you could use that to possibly get a ro.

That's crazy to me that a school would put themselves on the line like that. If the parents are requesting no access by her then there should be no access.

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I hope they make it right! That is crazy

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Tell me about it! As if we don’t have enough problems with hex, DH needs her “permission” to pick him up from school?! ?

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sammibrokaw4594
Sammi Brokaw·Мама двоих (9 лет, 16 лет)

Hey did that with SS's preschool and there wasn't even a CO! Hex said I couldn't do pick ups but there was no one else to do them! Her mom was SOOOO MAD when she had to leave work multiple times because Hex who was 500+ miles away told the school I couldn't pick up SS (then 4). She even told Hex she was being ridiculous. The school said whoever picks up SS gets he daily progress slips and said they'd make copies for each parent and then they said Hex said we can't have any updates and they have to side with her because "she's the mother." Unbelievable! I can't even fathom how talks school does that with a CO! Lawsuit......

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sammibrokaw4594
Sammi Brokaw·Мама двоих (9 лет, 16 лет)

They did that with SS's preschool!

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That’s shocking because SS’s kindergarten won’t even allow DH to pick up SS or even see him without calling hex to get “permission”. He’s sent the school a copy of the court order and nothing has changed. I can’t believe they said that!!

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