Question... When your SO makes you mad what are some things you do to calm down before they get home…

I usually plot my revenge and get myself even more worked up. ?

@taco that's exactly what I've been doing. Coming up with all these things I'm going to say ?.

Masterbate. Focus on me and my needs so I relax ?

Humor

Clean lol nothing better then taking my rage out by scrubbing something ?

I'm usually at work and we get home around the same time.

Working keeps me from exploding. Not in my head though.

I either just let it go if it's not worth it or if I'm mad I'll go out and walk around with my son to get fresh air.

Shop online and put it on his credit card...lol I kid I kid...or am I!?

Um sometimes I clean...or go for a stroll at target

Masturbate....???

Usually rage clean ?

See cleaning doesn't make it better because I see the shat he leaves out or his dirty clothes and I'm like "oh facking of course you threw your socks next to the hamper and left your cup of juice upstairs. Just leave it all for me to clean!" Lol.

I rage clean usually lol or if I'm really hormonal I'll rage clean AND talk to myself about all the things I could do to get revenge.

But mostly, my house is just really, really OCD level clean some days ?

Online shopping with his card ????

Idk I'm not good at holding it in, so I just send him an explosive text and feel better after I get it out. It has caused me some trouble here n there, but I get too anxious n if I really keep it in I get cray?

I'm an angry cleaner. I go after anything messy with everything I have and mumble to myself a lot.

I clean most of the time. Sometimes I exercise. Talk ish about him to myself lol

Go smoke some herb. I'm pretty relaxed during our conversations about what made me mad ?

We usually talk it out or text it out. A few angry texts and hang up then we're over it. Of course my fiance will never let me be angry with him in peace. He usually argue that he did nothing wrong instead of apologizing or let it go. Dont tell a pissed off woman that shes mad for no reason ✋ you're likely to get throat punched

Nothing will help me other than when we finally talk in person. I'll get even more mad/upset/worked up when I'm by myself.

Watch tv that he hates or play with our daughter. She always cheers me up

I text him because it's easier to write down how I'm feeling because I can remember it all instead of in person when he is trying to talk back I forget half the things. Sometimes I let things go and laugh at myself for being upset.