Friends birthday So a couple weeks ago I told my friend I would go to her birthday party that is…
Friends birthday
So a couple weeks ago I told my friend I would go to her birthday party that is tonight. She reminded me of it yesterday. Well it's a 40 minute drive and I'm being lazy and really don't want to go out. It's at a night club which isn't really my scene either lol. I feel bad if I don't go though ?. I also have mommy guilt big time when I go out!
deleted-user·
You should totally go. Have a night out
deleted-user·
I would go, if this is a friend that is important to me. You had an opportunity to tell her that it wasn't your thing and that you would prefer to take her to lunch. Now, you're flaking on the day of the event. That's not really being a good friend. Who knows, you might actually enjoy it and no one says you have to stay the whole time.
Brittany ·
That's true I guess I will go. I have a hard time going out. I feel bad for leaving lo and I get comfortable being home and not having to get ready lol.
Brittany ·
I did go last night and I had a good time. It was nice to get out with the girls! I just always feel bad leaving my lo even though my SO said she fell asleep 30 minutes after I left. I get mommy guilt big time. I need to have more time for myself though and not forget that I'm still a friend and not only a mother.
deleted-user·
Yes u gotta get out every once in a while. How old is your lo? Your mom guilt will lessen over time as they get older. Happy u went and had fun!!!! It's important for us moms to go out esp with girlfriends every once in a while. It helps us be better mothers!!!
Brittany ·
She's almost 7 months so I'm sure with time it will be easier!