f*** my life ? Okay so i never post anything on here about my personal life or anything but i just…
f*** my life ?
Okay so i never post anything on here about my personal life or anything but i just really feel like s*** and i cant believe this is happening. So yesterday I went to the store with my boyfriend and father of my daughter and of the one im expecting. I come back from the store and my dad starts to try and fight him because hes drunk. After this happens he txts me telling me he doesnt want anything to do with my family or me and that hes hung out with other girls because of my life. My family doesnt even know im pregnant again and it really hurts to know im possibly going to a single mom of two . I really dont want him out of my life . Weve been together for almost 3 years and i just cant believe this is happening to me right now ?. I wanted to have another baby with him because i really love him and thought we would be together for a long time raising our kids together. I feel stupid for putting myself in this situation. What should i do ? ?
deleted-user·
Wait I’m sorry but I guess I need clarification, YOUR father or the father of the baby ur carrying is leaving?
Elizabeth Alvarado·
The father of my babies says he wants nothing to do with me anymore and my father says hes thinking of leaving idk what to do ?
deleted-user·
I’m sorry sorry honey. Are there people you can go to for support? Sounds like it was mainly a reaction to your dad, and he was angry because of the situation. When everyone has calmed down have a calm chat and see if you can work it out xxx
Elizabeth Alvarado·
I dont know if things will work out he told me he was going to invite girls over. I dont know if im prepared to be a young single mom im only 22. I feel so stupid for putting myself in a situation like this ?
deleted-user·
As hard as it is, u can’t blame yourself and “feel stupid”. You are pregnant and you didn’t get that way on your own. You have to try and find strength wherever u can. It’s going to hurt, and you are completely entitled to hurt. One day you WILL wake up and think to yourself, wow I haven’t cried today, think wow I am laughing. It doesn’t seem possible right now but women have inner strength that they didn’t know existed.
Elizabeth Alvarado·
I just want him to be apart of our kids life ? our 1 year old and this one were having ?
deleted-user·
My child’s father walked out on us (yes wants nothing to do w me or the baby) because I refused to abort our child. And yes it is so PAINFUL to know that he wants nothing to do w the baby or you. And I’m not going to lie and say it’s easy or say there is something magical that u can do to fix it, but you can’t. The only thing you can do is pick yourself up and focus on yourself and the baby in order to prove to YOURSELF that you do not need someone like him in yours or ur children’s life. At the end of the day HE will be the one with regrets as YOU will be the one who is able to look in the mirror knowing that you did the right thing. Any man that leaves this family or his significant other while she’s carrying his child is a COWARD. And this situation shows you the type of person he is....any man that can so easily walk out on his partner and child is selfish and will continue to leave. If someone can leave you at this time will only leave over and over and over again in the future. So I know you love him and hurting to much to see the good in this, but there is. If he leaves you when u need him the most he will leave in the future as well. One day you will be glad that u started the process of moving on now and not ten years down the road.
Remember there is sometimes “good” in goodbye.
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