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I lost my baby I went to the dr for my 12 week appt. And my baby had no heartbeat. Words can't…

I lost my baby

I went to the dr for my 12 week appt. And my baby had no heartbeat. Words can't describe how heartbroken I am right now.

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deleted-user

I'm so sorry! I too lost a baby at my 12 week appointment. I was devastated as baby measured only days behind. But just know everything happens for a reason and your LO got their wings a little earlier. To give you hope, I had to have a D&E and just weeks later conceived my Rylee without ever having a cycle in between ? sending prayers your way and take time for yourself!

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Thank you! We're going to get past thanksgiving then decide on the pills or the d&e. Since baby seemed to have stopped living at 9 wks, she said I can have a natural miscarriage. I'm really nervous about any and all of it. I hope we conceive quickly too. It's really hard on the emotions. I cried all day.

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Im so sorry for ur loss

I lost my 2nd baby at 11 weeks and it was horrible i recommend having the d&e lossing a baby is hard enough they remove everything and u dont need to go through the pain of miscarring but some ppl di prefer to go through it at home im really sorry

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Yes I agree with mondt, i gave my body a couple days to decide what I wanted to do and nothing happened naturally which I am thankful for because I know this may not be the case for you or others but I became so scared with using the bathroom in fear of seeing something I did not want to. It eased my mind knowing my doctor performed everything for me and could confirm that everything went as smooth as possible. Best of luck with your decision. Feel free to message me if you have any questions

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I'm so sorry Dear. I have had a couple MCs too. It really is heartbreaking.

I luckily had them naturally, for me emotionally it was easier. Ill be praying for you guys. ❤?

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I'm so so sorry. It's heartbreaking. I'll be praying and hoping for you.

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I'm so sorry :( I had a missed miscarriage before I had my daughter and I know how heartbreaking it is. I ended up going in and being put out for a D&C. Again, I'm soooo sorry. Sending hugs!

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I'm so sorry backer... It must be so hard. But as christina wrote - everything happens for a reason... Sending warmth and hugs!

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Sorry for you loss.

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I'm so sorry to hear that. I'll pray for you

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backer

Backer

Thanks ladies ?

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Im very sorry...God has your baby in His arms and everything will be alright...God bless you!

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Im so sorry to hear this:(

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I am sooo sorry that you are going through this! I know nothing we say can make it better, but I will keep you both in my prayers! Keep close to God he will get you through it and know that he is holding your precious baby!!!

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backer

Backer

Thank you so much ladies!

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deleted-user

deleted-user

So sorry I've been through it twice no words can explain or soothe you. God bless

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Oh my gosh I am so so so sorry to hear this. You are in my prayers

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I am so sorry for your lose. Please keep your faith in GOD, and know that he will bless you with another bundle of joy!

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backer

Backer

Thank you! I came to terms with the loss, and choose JOY. sometimes I feel guilty for choosing joy but I'm still blessed and God is still good, always. Praying for another bundle of joy once I heal. I had a traumatic experience when miscarriage went wrong and landed me hemorrhaging in the ER..had bp of 60/20 and ended up needing emergency D&E. She said no trying for 2 months and it sounds soo long!

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Ur very strong baker i wish u all the best

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backer

Backer

Thank you!

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Very sorry! It is so hard to loose a baby especially because I feel like it's a lonely process for the mom... you're so in love and full of dreams and joy inside and no one else is usually bonded with that tiny dream yet.

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backer

Backer

Yeah,thats what has been the struggle. Even hubby doesnt get it. I tried explaining to him tonight how strongly the desire to get pregnant again is. Like its an imperative need. I cant wait to get my cycle back to start trying again. I pray for a positive for my birthday next month, and a healthy pregnancy..its crazy how someone you never met face to face could have such a huge impact.

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Yes. The need to get back pregnant is all consuming. I hope you get a positive soon and that you have a wonderful and healthy pregnancy!!!!!

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backer

Backer

Thank you. I so appreciate it!

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