Not a good mom. I am so tired of my dad and his family saying i dont know how to be a mom yet cause…

Not a good mom.

I am so tired of my dad and his family saying i dont know how to be a mom yet cause i am a ftm and i dont do stuff their way. Today my dad was yelling at me infront of my uncle cause my son was crawling on tile (the whole house has tile) and cause he had boogers. I have a play area for him which has a foam mat for him to play in but he already knows how to crawl it is not like i can contain him in only 1 place anymore. I over heared him talk about me to my uncle saying how i think i know how to take care of a baby when i dont. That hurt so bad to hear my father say im not a good mom i do everything for my son and he has everything a baby could ever need and more. That is not all though i have been lectured by his sister how she started to give her kids food and water at 3 months and how my son wont grow strong cause i waited till 6 months. Also another aunt told me how i still have to learn how to be a mom cause i did not want to give my son cookies and ice cream. Hello he is 7 months old he doesnt need that! My moms side of the family and SOs family respect our decisions and my dads side of the family make it seem like we are bad parents for not raising our son the way they did. I just dont know what to do anymore it hurts when they tell me im not a good mom over the smallest of things and im tired of crying over this.