The other day I was at my sister's house and her friend came over to drop off something and my sister was holding my child and this lady kissed my child ? and it all happened so quick that I was unable to say something. But omg some people don't have any boundaries for other people kids .
Very annoying. I was on my way to the baby changing toilets once and a woman came out of the cubical and touched my newborn sons face without even washing her hands. I swear I nearly cried. ?
Idk but in the Mexican culture they touch the babies because some people believe that if they dont they'll give them "mal de ojo" meaning the evil eye I don't believe in it but most do & when my kids were small they normally would ask me is it ok if I touch your baby I don't want to give it mal de ojo they would just touch their hand but noone would ever go over board. The one thing that one person has pissed me off is when they pick the baby up & they're knocked out like really I just put the baby to sleep why are you picking him up lol
When my son was a newborn a guy that worked at walmart stuck his hand right into my carseat and tickled my ds stomach. I told him go get the fack away. I wanted to slap him. ?
Baby wear everyday! My lillebaby has been a life saver ? i can't imagine being a mom without it. Dd is small for her age so I'll probably be wearing her until she's 3-4??
Eta my biggest reason for baby wearing is a severe anxiety about someone snatching dd out of a shopping cart ? hence wearing her until at least 4?
Someone was questioning why I was wearing my 2 yr old recently, saying some crap about how it must hurt my back. I said, “Nope, I got a well-designed carrier, and I can wear her until she’s 50lb in it.” My daughter still likes being in it, because it’s like walking snuggles. I like it because she can’t run off, or she can take a nap if we’re running errands.
Well luckily I have this condition called resting b!tch face even when I'm in the best mood so wearing baby or using a stroller it's very rare anyone tries to touch my baby and if they're so bold as to try they pull their hand back pretty quick after an "excuse you?" ?
Shay·
*glitch *
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Did a stranger try to touch your baby? I swear people act like babies are puppies. No you can't pet my infant.
Shay·
@vee Yes!! Like come on people
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I know exactly how you feel.
The other day I was at my sister's house and her friend came over to drop off something and my sister was holding my child and this lady kissed my child ? and it all happened so quick that I was unable to say something. But omg some people don't have any boundaries for other people kids .
Shay·
Y'all, I got hard judged by my new aunt for baby wearing last night.
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Very annoying. I was on my way to the baby changing toilets once and a woman came out of the cubical and touched my newborn sons face without even washing her hands. I swear I nearly cried. ?
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Idk but in the Mexican culture they touch the babies because some people believe that if they dont they'll give them "mal de ojo" meaning the evil eye I don't believe in it but most do & when my kids were small they normally would ask me is it ok if I touch your baby I don't want to give it mal de ojo they would just touch their hand but noone would ever go over board. The one thing that one person has pissed me off is when they pick the baby up & they're knocked out like really I just put the baby to sleep why are you picking him up lol
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I baby wear every day to and from my sons school we love it. ?? everyone else
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I dont get why people judge for babywearing. Like, at all. I hate the myth that babies can be spoiled.
Shay·
She has a "me and my family are better than yours" mentality
Eta: legit talked whole shat infront of my girls about my family.
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Well she SOUNDS hideous!
Shay·
@vee deffinitly is
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When my son was a newborn a guy that worked at walmart stuck his hand right into my carseat and tickled my ds stomach. I told him go get the fack away. I wanted to slap him. ?
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I just bought a boba wrap today. Hoping that keeps the vultures away
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Baby wear everyday! My lillebaby has been a life saver ? i can't imagine being a mom without it. Dd is small for her age so I'll probably be wearing her until she's 3-4??
Eta my biggest reason for baby wearing is a severe anxiety about someone snatching dd out of a shopping cart ? hence wearing her until at least 4?
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Serena I love my boba wrap it definitely helps!
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Ladies WHAT DO YOU SAY to these awful people? I will F'ing FREAK and slap someone if they touch my kid. What do you say?!?
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This is where having a serious case of rbf comes in handy. Not many people approach me.
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Oh yipes
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Mrs- ditto.
I think I have had two people address/approach me and ds from the time I was pregnant to him now almost two. ?
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Someone was questioning why I was wearing my 2 yr old recently, saying some crap about how it must hurt my back. I said, “Nope, I got a well-designed carrier, and I can wear her until she’s 50lb in it.” My daughter still likes being in it, because it’s like walking snuggles. I like it because she can’t run off, or she can take a nap if we’re running errands.
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Well luckily I have this condition called resting b!tch face even when I'm in the best mood so wearing baby or using a stroller it's very rare anyone tries to touch my baby and if they're so bold as to try they pull their hand back pretty quick after an "excuse you?" ?