Everyone has gone mia.. The days leading up to the moment I had my little girl, everyone was excited…

Yea it sucks, you normally realize who are there for you once baby arrives, it will get better though

It's just a tad upsetting. Like don't say one thing and do anther. You're supportive through my first but when I actually need someone you up and disappear.

1. My oldest daughter's name is Shayla and I have called her my Shayla bear since birth. So tht stood out to me. Lol

2. It's how it usually happens. I have 2 bow with one in the way, and in my experience, it gets better. You'll find people who genualy wanna be around you and have more in common with you. I now stuck to myself bc of the amount if shady people I have endured and I get to pick who I raise my children around. It gets lonely but I use it to my advantage. I get to spend more time with my kids and bind with them. I keep them close. But it does change momma, hang in there.

In a few months you will come to find out that the only people you need in your life is your small little family. They will make you happy and dd will make you even happier. You dont need anyone else. ❤️.

Thanks ladies.

I guess I just got so used to always being there for people when they needed me, I expected the same in return.

Always said the best way to lose friends is to start a family. My group of friends dwindle with each baby I have. Sadly. :( I was in the same situation, everyone was so happy then BAM gone.

@panda I agree. Most of mine were mommy friends too, so dd lost her playmates.

I did go out today and saw a distant relative of my SO's.

Doc recommended mommy groups but I don't do so well with strangers in person.