opinions would be nice. but honest ones only.

People are going to judge you regardless of your situation, so in the end you just have to do what you feel is best for your life, your partner's life, and the life of any child you bring into the world.

If the two of you have discussed parenting methods, finances, emotional stability, and household roles and feel that you can work all of that out together, then maybe you are ready.

It is not a personal decision I would make for my life, but we are all different and have different goals in mind for our lives. I wish you all the best for whatever the two of you decide.

You have to ask yourself and s/o if you guys can make it in on his salary. You won't be able to work 2 jobs with a baby. But it's really up to you 2. Good luck.

Thank you i can understand why it wouldnt be the best idea just for the fact that we havent been together long. However we have taken that and many other things into account and still feel like this is something we want

I guess i should also add. I want something like a long term engagement prior to signing papers which isnt something i was planning within the next 6 months.

Try to make decisions that will hopefully only benefit you in the long run .. and only trust the opinions of people that YOU trust ??

My husband and I got pregnant after 5 months of dating. Wasn't ttc but wasn't preventing it. We moved in together and waited to get married until my son was 18 months. Now we are ttc #2. So I'm just here to tell you it can happen and work out! We are so in love and happy about the way things worked out for us.

Sorry but I would wait until youve been tovether at least a year. You're still early into your relationship and getting to know each other. Absolutely no need to rush.

People are gonna judge regardless. My hubby and i got married after being together 6 days. We started ttc immediately and still are 3 years later. I have pcos which why it has continued to take us this long

It's not a question of whether you can afford it or not or if you're ready to settle down, but if you are prepared to spend the rest of your life with just him through everything- and sometimes stuff gets rougher than you can expect right now. 5 months isn't very long to know. I knew my husband for years before we got married and we were only together for a year before we got married, I don't regret it at all & I still want to be with him forever BUT we went through A LOT & a lot of the stuff we went through, we didn't go through very well together. I didn't know his reactions or attitude to every single situation, how he expressed (or didn't express) things. In my opinion, from experience, my advice would be to wait and learn about each other more before jumping in. I know it's exciting, but there's no reason to rush. Redecorate/paint a room together, bring him around somebody you're jealous of- maybe an ex or a girl he use to really like, get in an argument with somebody that he agrees with & see how he treats/talks to you, wait until one day you can't pay a bill and your electric or water goes off. Going through things like that will bring out both of your true colors. As long as you both have money & everything taken care of, it's not gonna be hard to feel nothing but happy & love. But you need to feel other things too to know if it's real.