My big brother says he's bringing their dads ashes back home where we live. I think they should stay…

My big brother says he's bringing their dads ashes back home where we live. I think they should stay here with our brother that he lived with since he passed here and his spirit is down here. But it's what they wanna do. My sis taking some with her in a tiny urn and locket... I'm wanting to go to my grannys grave cause I bought her a mothers day rose.. I miss that woman. It's been 10 years You never get over that feeling of missing someone after they pass.