I have a feeling my man is losing interest in me 😣 last night was horrible we tried to have sex and…

Is that the first time that's happened? It could be due to something else.

@jessjanet32, nope third time 😓 he blames it on the bedroom but we have been able to do it in there a lot so we went to another room and he still couldn’t do anything

You guys should take a weekend off. Have someone watch your son, get a hotel room. Get a couples massage. Take a break from your life and have a couples day

@arthuranna26 Aww...and y'all have had a good and frank talk about it?

@namastayinbed, I wish we could but we don’t have the money 😞 he doesn’t start his rate job yet and when he does make money it goes to child support 😪

@jessjanet32, I’ve tried but he gets super mad 😪

@arthuranna26, maybe take your son to a grandparents house and have a stay-cation

Could be stress

Ya know he just probably has a bunch of things on his mind. I know sometimes, I personally can not climax cuz my mind won’t settle down...

TMI but( ive never done this before until i met my fiance) but I started sending my fiance dirty photos of me while he was out of the house! I would dress up and take a couple photos and surprise him!! I would also started giving him random blow jobs here and there and it seemed to make him feel important and satisfied when I wasn't there.i became more playful with him and he seems to enjoy a tease sometimes!

@lovelymomof2, i can’t do blowjob but I want to try it 🤷🏼‍♀️

@arthuranna26 trying anything new to each other spices it up a lot in general🙄 of u can't do one thing, then maybe do another? Think if he has any fetishes he likes or like a fantasy maybe u could help him make it come true!

@lovelymomof2, he wants me to be a pirate 😂

@arthuranna26, That's interesting!😂 but hey I've been a "teacher" once lol it's really fun if u just go with the flow of things its def a game changer😉

@arthuranna26 might be stress. It happens.

Try new things , try a new setting. You both need to have a serious talk about what it is.

Hi OP. I see you are 19 weeks pregnant? I will say my husband got so freaked out about having sex when I was pregnant last time that we RARELY had sex until DD was born and most of he time he would go soft before even finishing because he was just so uncomfortable about it. I didn’t really take it personally because I knew it wasn’t about my body so much as about him knowing his daughter was right there 😂. Could it be possible that you being pregnant has something to do with it?

@tacos4lyfe, i am not sure I remember it used to turn him on me being pregnant and all. But now I feel like I’m just to ugly for him.

@arthuranna26, whatever is going on with him just know it’s about HIM, not about you.