Booked myself in for a private scan tonight at half 7.... wish I could just relax and enjoy this…
Booked myself in for a private scan tonight at half 7.... wish I could just relax and enjoy this pregnancy!
Managed about a week of feeling positive after last scan before anxiety and fear started kicking in again!
After 3 miscarriages in a row I just can't seem to let myself get excited or accept that this time is the real deal.
Anyone else feel the same? When does it get easier?. My partner thinks I am crazy booking private scans... but way I see it, is peace of mind is priceless right?
Jodie Towse·
I feel the same, I’ve had an ectopic and a miscarriage, I’m now 10 weeks with my rainbow baby and I’ve had an emergency scan to make sure it’s not ectopic and I relaxed for a week after and now I can’t seem to relax constantly feel like something is wrong I’m hoping after 12 weeks I will relax x
Frosty·
@mrsmowmow that's why I am freaking out because although everything looked Great last scan and was told less than 5% chance of loosing it, I know there is still that chance as I have seen heartbeat before and still went on yo lose it. But after the mmc I just don't trust my body to let me know and don't want to go through 12 weeks of thinking everything is ok again. Thanks me too. Xx
Frosty·
@jodie.towse it's so hard eh... I really hope after 12 week scan I can relax as well. I get my 1st booking app wed so should get date of 12 week scan then. Xx
Mummy To Kai&Brodie 💙·
after we miscarried it was my partners idea to book a private scan when I got pregnant again, waiting until the 12 week scan wasn't an option after the heart ache the first time, definitely give us peace of mind x
Frosty·
@nataliielouiseexo that's my thoughts exactly. I would rather have that peace of mind for a few days/weeks than worry all that time. Xxx
Frosty·
@winnie1 that's it even when they are here there is new worries. My partner keeps telling me the same as you. The statistics do nothing to ease my mind with having had 3 miscarriages and one after seeing heartbeat. I hate that it is out of my control.... o just wish I was able yo adopt that approach of what will be will be... I manage for about a day... them start over thinking and analysing again. I am so grateful for my two children as I know people who havnt even been able to have one... so I am blessed... I really need to give my self a kick up the backside and just take it all a day at a time. Thanks so much same to you as well xxx