So my cousin has 2 little boys and just found out she is expecting again with a third and she is a…

Most of the time when someone has a baby already it's easier for them to get pregnant a second and third time. I hope you get pregnant soon

@soon2bemama I know, just wished it was easy for me to even get a first like it was for her you know.

My husband and I tried for about a year and a half. I told him that I was done trying for a while, that it was too much stress on me and it was all I could think about. So in July 2017 I decided to just focus on myself and not worry about tracking my fertile days and everything else that comes with when your trying to get pregnant. I had lost 15 lbs and than bam August 2017 I got pregnant. They say it's when you stop trying that's when you get pregnant. We decided to just have fun. I didn't look at my calendar or do any ovulation tests in July or August. Please don't put so much stress on yourself. I know it's hard, especially when you want it so badly.

@waiting4ablessing, it is very difficult to be on the outside looking in. For 5 years my husband and I tried. Finally after some medication intervention by my OB I finally got pregnant October 2013. During those 5 years many of our friends and family were having children one couple even had 3 girls during that time and got pregnant with their boy one month before I got pregnant.

It’s really hard to wait, I know. Try to take some time and do things that are not easily done once you have babies.

@farmers_wife10 I haven't been doing ovulation test as frequent like I used too. I know I have lost weight also. We been just doing it just for fun. But when you cycle is longer then 40 days that's when it really bothers you. You go in to doctor and they say everything's fine, you're ovulating, you got your ovaries there shouldn't be any else going on. But it's just been a long 2 years I swear. I know when you have a baby everything changes and that's fine by me. Just patiently waiting for my bundle to come to our lives.

@waiting4ablessing, I agree cycles over 40 days suck. My cycles ranged between 38 days and 125 days with nothing wrong and no pregnancies or miscarriages. Turned out I had PCOS. Once I was on treatment for insulin resistance my cycles dropped to 28-40 days. Once I was having a cycle every month my OB started me on clomid 50 the first month, 100 the second, 150 the third month, and finally 200 the fourth month. The day she prescribed the 200 she told me this was my last month to get pregnant or she was going to have me take a month break before trying a different med. The month I took the 200 I got pregnant.

@farmers_wife10 oh wow, gonna have to see about that. I gotta make an appt.