So I feel like I’m crazy. My s.o. And I use to have sex like atleast every other day up to last…
So I feel like I’m crazy. My s.o. And I use to have sex like atleast every other day up to last week. With this pregnancy I’ve been more into wanting it than not. And since Saturday it’s like he doesn’t even want to touch me anymore, I’m going slightly crazy. Like all I can think about is maybe he’s talking to someone else but I am almost certain that’s not the case. I just don’t know what to do. Should I just wait to see how long he’s good with waiting or what???!
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Just be upfront, ask him if there's an issue.
Tara🤙🏻·
Has he been more tired lately or working more ? Diet change? That could all affect it
Michaela Cook·
He’s had pt for about 2 months now after work but that’s it. Nothings changed
Chloey K·
Мама сына-младенца
My husband got too scared to touch me the further I got into my pregnancy. He was scared of hurting the baby. Could it maybe be that?
Brenda·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Is this your guy's first baby?? He might not want to hurt the baby if so. A lot of men fear this. just reassure him the baby is fine and nothing will happen to the baby if you have sex.
Jenn·
Maybe he’s tired, stressed, feeling overwhelmed, worried that you’re just SAYING you still want sex to try to please him when you really don’t... or any other number of things that can make a person temporarily lose their interest in sex. If you really want sex and he’s not initiating, try to get him turned on instead of waiting for him to make the first move. Be direct as many men don’t read subtle clues. If he still seems uninterested, it’s time to have a chat and see what’s up with him, how he’s feeling and why he might be less interested than usual. I wouldn’t jump straight to thoughts of cheating unless there has been something else to make you think this, or it’s an issue you’ve dealt with in the past. More than likely, there’s something else less sinister going on and you won’t know until you ask.
Michaela Cook·
@jenn_14_m, I haven’t said anything to him about wanting to have sex. I normally just let him initiate it so I don’t push him into it. And i have tried, well I feel like I have but it turns into nothing. Also like well even initiate it but then stop out of no where, I’m like come on!!! 😂
Michaela Cook·
@jenn_14_m, and definitely cheating has been a huge thing in the past with others. But not him.
Michaela Cook·
@mizzvuitton, it is first baby.
Jenn·
@mrc, then it’s definitely understandable that your mind goes there! Definitely have a conversation with him and explain how you feel and ask him what’s going on with him and if anything is wrong. Good luck girl! Let us know how it goes!