Not pregnancy related ladies, but how would you feel if your now Husband kept bringing up your past?…

My hubby does it all the time. Drives me up a wall! But if I bring something up about him the worlds ending.

@johnell yeah sucks hate it.. And to be quite honest I don't Even want to talk or remember my past especially 7-8 years ago..

That’s just what men do my kids daddy do it all the time but let me bring up the past he ready to change the subject or say some stupid shit like let’s not dwell on the past

I absolutely hate it. My husband does it in any argument as ammo against me even when he is hands down wrong in the situation.

My youngest sons father does the same thing. We actually aren’t together right now bc of it. He brings up stuff from when I was 14! Almost 16 years ago before I even knew him. He’s crazy and I can’t deal

It drives me nuts!! We argue all the time because of it...

That's my point exactly like talking about my past is robbing me of the future I currently now have with him I could have been talking about way more important things knowing we have a child on the way so my past is so much different comparing to back then

@mommabear4_07 I hate iy so much to the point where I ask him to leave if he keeps bringing it up

@prettyflower1033, I actually did leave.. he's in Nevada now and I'm in Florida, but I'm moving to NC in a week and we're moving back in together

@mommabear4_07 I'm glad y'all can work it out and move forward cause like like I told my Husband the past is the past..

@prettyflower1033 , we are too, were both going to live now and hope for a beautiful positive future

@mommabear4_07 yes you will and I wish you the best.

@prettyflower1033 awe thank you... I hope your relationship gets better too...

Just stay positive

Mu hubby does it all the time and it hurts when he does😢

@noenahiza I'm trying not to be emotional about it..

@mommabear4_07 I'm trying my best I just need to be more patient.

Maybe they are hurting about it. Maybe they are scared. Of it repeating. Either way its not right to bring up the past over and over. He either forgives you or he doesn't. If he does then he needs to stop bringing it up.

@prettyflower1033 i know how you feel i feel

@mhbbb2 definitely hurting and worried that it might happen to him . But as far as forgiving he shouldn't have to cause I have never cheated on him he is purely going off my past but I will let it go like I promise him I would