Okay so I have been asking my boyfriend to just clean our room and fold the laundry on the couch.…
Okay so I have been asking my boyfriend to just clean our room and fold the laundry on the couch. That’s it. I cleaned the living room, kitchen , guest bathroom and our sons room I’m not even kidding every single night (my kid is a monster lol) for 2 weeks now. Well I have an attitude now about it. He wants his friend to come stay over (they work together his friend has no gas money to put in his own truck and lives in another town from their work) and I told him it’s fine as long as he at least does the “fucking laundry” before he even steps into our house. I totally get he works and I don’t anymore (until my car is fixed) so I should clean and stuff. But when I do clean he makes a mess right after. How hard is it to wash off the dish you just used so Shit isn’t stuck to the dish. How hard is it to just put your shoes IN the shoe basket ? How hard is it to put your clothes IN a hamper when you take them off? He doesn’t do shit! When I worked I still came home and cleaned because he didn’t. He’s lazy as fuck when it comes to house chores. The couch has about 5 baskets of clean laundry dumped on it. It’s a mountain of clothes. I refuse to wash anymore until those are folded and put away. His old job for house chores used to be JUST the dishes but he wouldn’t do them until they all piled up and we had none left to use at all. Today he was mad I was being a bitch and I asked him how fun is it to step over and trip on shit in our room because he won’t clean it. Or how fun is it to not have any clothes washed since He wore all his clean clothes and I refuse to do anymore right now. And he then “understood” me and started folding laundry.. but every 2 min he gets up and does something he “forgot to do” like call someone or talk the neighbors..
Andrea ·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
STORY OF MY ENTIRE LIFE, DEAR LORD!!!!!!!
Mimi·
Sounds typical
Jedi Mama·
It doesn’t help that his mom did everything for him growing up. Cleaned his room did his laundry made his food everything. Even when he was 20! My mom made me do everything besides make dinner but throughout the day I was making my own food lol
Kelly ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@jedimama this is exactly my situation! Its infuriating sometimes.
Alma ·
Same! I’m a nag🙄 according to my husband. I would love to not be the planner of everything. The grocery list, the shopping, the cleaning making sure everyone has the uniform they need. I wonder what he would do.
Shanon Gutierrez·
Мама четверых детей
Mine is the same!! I hate the unrinsed dishes in the sink!!! It only takes a second to rinse the food out. Help me out, since im the only one who will actually wash the dishes
Jedi Mama·
I wish men could think like “oh babe has done a bunch of laundry maybe I’ll load the next one for her” “oh babe did dishes I’ll just clean the plate I used so we don’t have dirty dishes” “oh babe just cleaned I’ll just vacuum for her”
Sorcha·
Mine did the same for a while. I found cutting back on his items (he has only 7 outfits now) helped. When he started to notice he has no clean underwear he would do some laundry. Same with dishes. He needed the visual.
Kristi P·
Sounds like my SO. Doesn't do shit around the house. I'm sick and tired of cleaning up after him so I don't anymore. I do my dishes, laundry, care for the dogs, etc. He gives me every stupid ass excuse on his days off why he can't do something or claims I don't do anything around the house either.. He tries to play the whole "I'm exhausted after a hard day at work." Umm I don't give a fuck! I work too, mofo. I don't rub it in his face that my job is much more demanding hard work than his. The point is, he lives here too so he needs to contribute with the house work. I'm beyond done with it.
Jedi Mama·
I’m definitely not his mother so I shouldn’t have to act like it. I shouldn’t have to lecture him or yell at him just to do things. His favorite line is “you aren’t my mom shut up” well I wouldn’t have to act like it if you actually just did something! His mom still does things for him. She makes his dr appointments or calls places he needs to pay bills to. She’s a secondary on his bank account... he hasn’t grown up and she won’t even let him yet she’ll listen to me complain about it and agree with me..
Brooke ·
My son is 3 years old and he puts his dirty clothes in a the dirty clothes hamper. That's ridiculous.. I wouldn't pick them up anymore let's see if he changes it.
Dee Sweeney ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Same situation but my now ex would tell me that I’m putting him down when I wasn’t but 🤷🏽♀️