I can't help but think about my girls father. He broke up with me in February and I can't get over…

@hawkinsmommy2016 I honestly dont know. I woke up one morning & he told me that he didnt want to be with me anymore. He said he hasnt been happy since before our youngest daughter was here. He never told me how unhappy he was. I just dont know how to let go.

Its hard to let go because u were blind sided and don't have any closure. I pray u get strength to deal with this.

This makes me so sad 😭 were there any signs? Was he acting different?

@n_favors thank you. I'm doing the best I can. One day at a time 😊

Yea that's wat its gone take

@yesicondaa I noticed when he got his new job that was August 2017. But i didnt realize how different he was acting until after Christmas time. Thats when i asked him if he was happy with me. I just haf a gut feeling that he was talking to someone from his job. He said he wasnt talking to anyone. It wasnt until a 3-4 weeks after he broke up with me. Thats when I found out he was talking to a girl he works with.

@nikolrae12, omg!!! I cant imagine what you are feeling. Please stay strong though. For your babies!! And don’t show him you care or that you are hurt. Act happy if hes ever around because usually thats an ego boost knowing you still care while he is with another person. Just focus on yourself and your girls. Pick up some new hobbies and maybe treat yourself to a new look! Also, be the bigger person and never be rude when communicating about the girls...make him realize he had something good. Sometimes we tend to throw things in their face and make them glad they left in the first place. Once they’re off that honeymoon stage in a relationship he’ll realize the grass isn’t always greener! I really hope things get better for you.🌸 this is just something i’ve seen that works with someone i know personally. Hope it can help in any way. 💕

@yesicondaa thank you. You dont know how much I needed to read that. I agree with you 100%. My babies keep me going! Some days are better than others. I'm getting there. Life is about what you make it right? So ive got to make it a good one 😊

Sorry op. We've all been there. I know this is cliche but it won't hurt this bad forever.

@nikolrae12, im glad i was able to help 😊 it made me think... hm what would i do in that situation and honestly id do everything ive put off during my marriage. Definitely id work out and get my body back and pick up the hobbies i did before i got married. Sometimes we’re so focused on our partner/kids that we stop being ourselves (who they fell in love with) and continue growing as a person. Ive noticed im too focused on my husband making sure he eats and his laundry is done and that he has his work lunch and that i spend as much time as i can with him instead of working on myself. Things gotta change once i give birth! Itll be different once my son is born but we need “alone” time too in order to be the best version of ourselves 😌

@yesicondaa thank you so much for all your advice. I agree with everything you said. I need to step back re evaluate myself and work on bigger and better things for myself. I too often find myself putting what I need on hold or putting things on the back burner. My girls are my first thought. I do it out of love, but I've got to love myself too. I've got to remember that mommy matters too 😊 in the end I know that everything is going to be okay I have 2 beautiful daughter's and I am very blessed.

@mhbbb2 I know I know. I just wish it would stop already but one day. I've just keep telling myself keep pushing forward there are better things ahead!

You definitely are blessed 😌💕 best wishes to you and your girls🌸